Some people say that marriage is both a besieged city and a safe haven for women.

This is true. When a woman marries her beloved, it will bring her a solid sense of happiness and security.

However, not every woman can hold this kind of happiness and security in her hands forever.

Because nothing in this world is static, everything changes.

Especially feelings are subject to change.

For example, when a husband has an extramarital affair, the safe haven that a woman relies on will collapse.

When a man has an extramarital affair, it is a heartache that every woman in a marriage cannot bear.

Someone once interviewed the issue of extramarital affairs, and someone said: As long as the wife handles it properly, most men can eventually return to their families in time.

Because the reason why men have extramarital affairs is just for novelty, just to have fun, and they have no real feelings for their mistresses.

However, this is not the case. Some men still have true feelings for women outside of marriage.

And when a man develops real feelings for a woman who has an extramarital affair, even if the original wife wins her husband back, it will be difficult to win back her husband’s heart.

Let me tell you a true story first.

My friend Cecilia and her husband were our first love in college. From falling in love to getting married, they experienced a long-distance love race and a marathon for 8 years.

After getting married, they were recognized as the happiest young couple.

However, just 3 years ago, Cecilia’s husband betrayed her and fell in love with a female colleague in his office.

After Cecilia learned that her husband had betrayed her, she began to do everything she could to defend her marriage.

At this time, Cecilia not only moved her parents-in-law and her parents out, but also moved her son out, asking them to teach and persuade her husband together.

In addition, Cecilia would have long conversations with her husband every night, reviewing the romantic moments of their relationship with him.

Under heavy pressure, Cecilia’s husband gradually began to waver in the idea of divorcing Cecilia.

Later, Cecilia’s husband and his mistress broke up and returned to their families.

So far, Cecilia’s “marriage defense battle” has been won. However, Cecilia seemed to have saved her husband, but in fact she completely lost his heart.

Because since her husband returned to the family, he has never been intimate with cecilia.

Although they were lying on the same bed, her husband always turned his back to her every night, and usually faced her with a cold face when he came home.

Until one day, Cecilia woke up in the middle of the night and saw her husband looking at the photo of the woman on his mobile phone.

At this moment, her heart was broken. Only then did she realize that although she had saved her husband.

But that woman became the eternal goddess in his heart, occupying his heart forever, and all he got was a heartless body.

I can’t help but sigh: Who said a man doesn’t have true feelings for his mistress outside of marriage?

It’s true: a happy marriage is like traveling around the world, while an unhappy marriage is full of ghosts.