Maybe in the eyes of outsiders, Libra will be the kind of person who has many friends, has a rich life, and enjoys it very much.

But from the perspective of Libra, this is not the case.

01

First of all, it is Libra’s definition of friends.

Libra is a person who is slow to warm up but can be easily transferred.

For example, at a certain party, Libra was very nervous when he went. But the atmosphere is very good, allowing Libra to quickly find the feeling, and then if someone with the right appetite comes to strike up a conversation, he can quickly get into the state.

However, after the party is over and the state dissipates, Libra will retreat very quickly from this feeling that came so quickly. Maybe after taking a nap, I forgot all about this person’s name, what we talked about at that time, and how I felt.

When getting along, the other person feels that this Libra is very enthusiastic and seems to be interested in him. But after a day, it seemed very strange, especially online, and it felt like the two of them couldn’t talk at all.

The reason is that Libra’s enthusiasm is transmitted by the environment and atmosphere, but Libra is still slow to warm up to the person opposite.

This is a feeling that Libra himself can’t explain, so he can’t explain it at all and can only let the relationship develop naturally.

Before the atmosphere, feeling, and state are achieved, Libra will be very polite, reserved, and distant. Moreover, Libra himself will not create an atmosphere, cultivate feelings, or seek state at all.

02

To put it bluntly, Libra is a person who takes the initiative to express his affection;

But he would definitely not be someone who would take the initiative to approach.

It was you who got close to Libra. Libra thinks you are very good and expresses its good feelings so that you can continue to get closer.

Once you remain polite and keep a distance, Libra loses its feeling, the state will slowly disappear, and then distance will instinctively occur.

To put it bluntly, Libra will never take the initiative to find the other party twice without seeing the other party’s initiative.

If there is no response once, Libra will give up in his heart.

It’s not that he is glassy, sensitive, or caressing, but because the atmosphere has changed and his feelings have changed, he no longer wants to get along with this person.

To put it more bluntly, Libra is extremely serious about what happens in relationships.

He was so serious that he didn’t feel like he was being serious at all.

We had a fight, but I didn’t want to leave you, so I called you to explain, but you didn’t listen to my explanation and hung up on me.

When this happens, most people will think that the other party is angry, so they need to sleep and fight again tomorrow, or continue to fight until the other party picks up. No matter what, they want the other party to give a clear result.

When Libra encounters this situation, he will not call again, nor will he want a result, because in Libra’s view, the other party hangs up the phone, and this is the result.

The result is that the other person wants to leave you.

Therefore, after this happens, Libra will be cold for a long time.

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Is Libra holding a grudge? In fact, I don’t hold grudges.

Moreover, the occurrence of this kind of thing cannot be called “revenge”, and Libra does not want to take revenge at all.

But when the other party hangs up the phone, Libra will seriously start thinking about the relationship, the other person, himself, why we are together, and the new life after separation.

In this state, he is rational, not emotional.

Intellectual pessimism is often scarier than emotional negativity.

Because emotional negativity can be relieved by sleeping, hearing the other person’s explanation and a hug can resolve this negativity and believe in love again.

But the rational pessimism cannot be alleviated. When I hear the explanation the next day, I will feel strange, meaningless, and my feelings have changed.

Being able to vent out means there is still love, but when Libra doesn’t want to vent at all, he will only feel that it is meaningless.

When the feeling changes, the relationship deteriorates, and two people can no longer get along naturally when they are together, Libra will start to think rationally and pessimistically about when the two people started to deteriorate.

Of course, there is no way to figure this out.

In the end, Libra doesn’t want to blame the other person, nor does he want to blame himself, so he can only blame the two people for being inappropriate.

It can be understood that an unresolved problem has caused subtle changes in the relationship between the two people, and has caused Libra to feel unnatural when getting along with the other person. Libra constantly wants to solve this problem so that the two people can get back together, but the other person does not. Don’t think this is a problem.

Finally, Libra suddenly realized that the problem was that the two people were not suitable, so he resolved the relationship.

04

Libra hides his emotional side.
Because his emotions are not in his face, but in his thoughts.

When you are in a good mood, you are optimistic and cheerful and do not care about anything or worry about anything.

When he is in a bad mood, pessimism and stubbornness come to the fore, and unresolved problems are stuck in his throat, making him unable to eat well or sleep.

And whether emotions are good or bad depends on the feeling. Libra himself cannot describe this feeling at all. He can only judge how the other person feels about him based on his own feelings.

If you deal with him, he won’t be angry. If you lie to him, he will listen to your explanation. If you hurt him, he will forgive you.

But he will not forget these injuries, but will slowly accumulate and become a feeling.

He doesn’t know when he will be tired or when he will give up, but when these bad feelings make him feel bad, he will bring it up one by one and explain it to you.

When he really needs to care about something and solve a problem, the problem will definitely turn into an inappropriate relationship problem between the two of them.

What you don’t know is that Libra is also a person who is very black and white in relationships, with no middle ground.

Love is everything, and not loving is everything.

When you love, you can understand, tolerate, and not care.

But when you can’t understand, can’t tolerate, and have to care, Libra can definitely say that you won’t love if you don’t love.

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As long as the relationship is right and life is beautiful, Libra can take all the mistakes on his own head and digest them by himself.

But if the relationship goes wrong and life becomes a mess, Libra will definitely put all the mistakes on the other person.

The right and wrong thing is that Libra cannot accept long-term conflict and tug-of-war.

If you quarrel on the first day and you take the initiative to reconcile on the second day and go out for a meal or something with Libra, Libra will feel that he has gone too far, and then make up for it, and then turn around, and then the relationship will get better and better.

But if you quarrel on the first day, ignore each other on the second day, and Libra can’t help but send you a message on the third day, but you don’t reply, then on the fourth night Libra will feel that the relationship is wrong and life will be a mess. , all the fault lies with you.

Grasp the atmosphere between you and pay attention to Libra’s emotional state.

When he is in a bad mood, he must be at his most rational and pessimistic. If you still want to be with him, then take the initiative to tell him. A hug can solve all problems.

But if you don’t want to and insist on Libra taking the initiative to give you this hug, then you probably won’t be able to wait.

When you have to fight to win or lose in a relationship, Libra will definitely not lose.

When you have to decide what is right or wrong in a conflict, Libra will never be wrong.

The reason Libra loves someone is very simple, because they are happy with the other person, so they want to be together all the time.

The reason why Libra doesn’t love someone is also very simple, because it’s tiring to get along with the other person, so they don’t want to get along with them anymore.