Love is a game, a hunter and a hunter chasing each other. What kind of fate will a relationship have? The process of chasing determines the final result.
A friend broke up and she couldn’t think about it. She couldn’t figure out why the relationship between the two was very good and there was no conflict at all. She even agreed to the request for an intimate relationship just to make the man happy. Why did she give her sincerity in exchange for it? Not the expected result?
In fact, the intimate relationship between two people is also a game in love. It is the most critical step in determining the direction of the relationship in the process of communication. On the one hand, it means that the relationship between two people will become closer, and on the other hand, it will directly Destroy a relationship.
After having an intimate relationship, if a man is unwilling to continue dating you, the common psychology is the following three.
1 After achieving the goal, feeling confused emotionally
If love is compared to a career, then there are only two career goals that a man is willing to pursue for a woman: the first goal is to have an intimate relationship with a woman and satisfy basic physiological desires; the second goal is to date for the purpose of getting married. I hope to get married to a woman.
The body and mind are always one. For men, it is most common to have the first goal in dating a woman.
However, in the process of dating, most men will stop after reaching the first goal, because achieving the first goal is relatively easy, just like climbing a mountain. Climbing a peak rarely leads to climbing higher mountains in one go.
When a man’s emotional goal is achieved, he will relax, as if he has reached the top in one go, and there is no need to continue to tense up and explore the path like climbing a mountain.
Some men will feel that they have already obtained a woman, just like they have cleared the level in a game. He does not know what to do next. It is not the right time to get married. There is no challenge in continuing to pursue her, so he simply runs away from the relationship.
2. Once you get it, you won’t love it anymore
The clothes you like are most attractive only if they are displayed in the window. Even if you spend money to buy them home, you can’t escape the fate of being in the bottom of the box. A relationship is the best if you don’t get it. Once two people have an intimate relationship, it means The atmosphere of getting along with each other has changed.
As the saying goes: Don’t feed the fish you catch with bait. Men will not continue to be attentive to a woman who has already succeeded. If a woman suddenly becomes very clingy after something happens, thinking that the man belongs to her completely, it will give the man a very ignorant feeling and think that the woman requires him to be responsible. , is an unplayable performance.
To put it bluntly, a woman who gives herself easily before marriage will make a man feel cheap.
In this case, if a woman does not behave gracefully and maintain a sense of mystery that makes men elusive, but starts to act like a little woman who cannot live without a man, it will easily bore the man.
It’s not that it’s wrong for a woman to truly love someone and be willing to hand over her most precious possessions, but that a man doesn’t truly love you. The purpose of being with you is obviously to satisfy his own lower desires.
3. Men question, women’s loyalty
Influenced by traditional concepts, some men will retain very traditional concepts in their bones. They believe that a woman’s intimate relationship with a man is a manifestation of casual emotions. Even if he is the male protagonist, he will have this idea. Especially in the case of a short relationship, if a woman gives herself up easily, it will make men confused. Men who think rationally will not believe in true love.
A man will not think that the love between two people is so indestructible. Reason will make him think that everything happens too easily. He will think that women have no personal bottom line in emotions and will easily do the same thing with other members of the opposite sex.
Such a man cannot fully trust love and his partner, and will always be suspicious of a woman’s sincerity in loving him.
What is revealed is the selfishness and prejudice of a man. After all, he is also a participant. Why should he stand as a bystander and give women too much harsh criticism?
After having an intimate relationship, all the grounds for a man to doubt a woman’s sincerity may also appear in himself. Why do others do to others what they don’t want others to do to them?
Intimacy between men and women is a natural behavior that occurs when emotions develop to a certain stage. There should not be too many reactions or interpretations to avoid blaspheming love.
In real life, emotional life cannot be in a vacuum. Due to the various attitudes of people, even if two people have intimate behavior that should make the relationship further, they may be ruthlessly separated.
Women should not blame themselves for this, thinking that it is their fault that a man suddenly leaves, let alone trying to please him or retain him.
A man who truly loves you will not put you in such an embarrassing situation, nor will he not know how to cherish you after receiving your most precious sincerity.
Take your heart back and love yourself well. People who truly love you will not go away; people who don’t love you don’t have to force them to look back.