My best friend who wanted a divorce came to my house and took a look, and she never dared to divorce again.

At 8 o’clock that night, while I was working on a manuscript, my best friend told me on WeChat that we had quarreled again and asked if she could come to my house.

Come on, come on, the role of a best friend is to give you a place where you can come at any time when you quarrel with a man.

After she came, she cried unbridledly and shouted that she must get a divorce this time.

In fact, it was just a quarrel over trivial matters, but there was no good communication.

After she finished crying and I calmed her down, I continued working on the manuscript.

She picked up a book on my bookshelf and flipped through it.

About half an hour later, she said, I want to go home and not get divorced.

I asked her with a confused look on her face, why did things change so quickly?

She smiled and replied, I found that my husband is still very good…

After saying that, she turned around and left, and her husband was on his way to pick her up.

I was caught off guard and was fed a handful of dog food.

When I put the book she had just read back on the shelf, I discovered that the book she had just read was “Relationship: Bridge to the Soul.”

In fact, no marriage in the world is perfect. As Wenger Juli said: “In this world, even the happiest marriage will have 200 thoughts of divorce and 50 strangles in a lifetime.” The other person’s impulse.”

Marriage is not afraid of stumbling, but it is most afraid of cold wars. As long as you are willing to communicate well and pay enough attention, everything can be solved easily.

For example, my best friend, her husband is actually very good to her. He comes home on time from get off work every day, occasionally helps with housework, and goes with her to travel and relax during holidays…etc. It’s just that she always had a big quarrel every three days and a small quarrel every two days because of some trivial matters in life. She always said she wanted a divorce.

Since that night, they have not quarreled again, and their life has become sweeter and happier. They show off their affection in the circle of friends from time to time, and often give us shit.

Later, I asked her if she had seen such a big change after just reading the book for half an hour. She replied: I saw an example in the book, which suddenly enlightened me and woke me up instantly. I almost missed my happiness.

Yes, as the author said: From the perspective of “love”, imagining the best side of your partner or life is a shortcut that can quickly restore intimacy.

For example, when you and your husband or boyfriend are quarreling over trivial matters in life, you can take a deep breath and ask yourself a question: “If he was the person I loved most, what would I do to him?”

Do you get stunned for a moment and then calm down?

Because at this time, a handsome and considerate lover will appear in your mind, and your heart will become softer.

Soon, you began to soften your tone, and the atmosphere between you and your husband eased, and the relationship between the two seemed to be more harmonious.

And half an hour ago, you might have been arguing like enemies.

This is incredible, right? This is how revelation helps you.

Of course, some people will say: “As soon as I saw his face, I couldn’t help but get angry. You asked me to think of the best side of him, and I really can’t do that.”

Friends like this may not be able to take shortcuts. They need to use the first method in the book and walk a long road before they can reach the end.

During this process, you must always determine your determination for this intimate relationship, so that you can have the courage to persist and the courage to take action.

In short, real intimacy is the sublimation after “feathers in the same place”.

Some people feel bored after experiencing romance; some people lose confidence as they watch the person in front of them gradually become disillusioned; and some people cannot bear the pain of introspection and finally choose to give up.

It’s a pity that these people gave up their intimate relationships because they were afraid of trouble, and they failed to make it to the end, and they failed to grow into truly powerful selves.

As the book says:

You have to go through each stage one step at a time before you can finally experience true intimacy.

So as long as you still have love, please don’t give up, because only by crossing the desert can you drink the sweetest nectar.

If you also have emotional troubles, or you want to take your intimate relationship to a higher level, then please open this book “Intimacy”. It is a book worth reading more than twice.

Whenever you encounter setbacks in intimate relationships (including couples, children, parents, brothers and sisters, etc.) or interpersonal relationships, or want to give up, you can open this book “Intimate Relationships” and find out Cracked answer.

Zhang Defen, the author of the book “Meeting the Unknown Self” said, “Intimacy is a book I have read more than twice. I know I will read it again. Reading this book can learn the true meaning of intimacy.”

Wu Yinghui, founder of Life Coach International Alliance, senior psychological counselor and relationship workshop instructor, said: Reading “Intimate Relationships” is a journey to explore the truth of life.

For example: In our lives, some bizarre phenomena often occur. For example, some women who have suffered domestic violence for a long time will still encounter the same situation in subsequent relationships. Why does she always choose such violent men and insist on suffering?

The answer can be found in the book “Intimate Relationships”.

Christopher Moon, the author of “Relationship: Bridge to the Soul”, is a Canadian international speaker. He has been deeply involved in the field of interpersonal relationships for nearly thirty years and has provided help to people in Canada, China, Japan, etc., in many countries.

This book is also his insights and experiences in the process of getting along with his wife. The unique handling method also makes many people regard this book as a guide for dealing with interpersonal relationships, especially the relationship between husband and wife.

Reading it is a kind of fate and the beginning of self-awakening!

I hope that after reading this book, you will have a happy intimate relationship in your life and live a better version of yourself in it.