The encounter between people depends on a kind of fate, and the long-term relationship depends on trust and true love.
Trust can bring people closer; true feelings can melt the cold heart.
However, how many feelings are deeper than trust but destroyed by deception; how many sacrifices start from true love but end up not being cherished.
Trust is like water, turbid water is difficult to clear; true love is like a mirror, a broken mirror is difficult to be rounded.
Therefore, any relationship, no matter how good the relationship is, cannot easily break these two things.
Trust
People often say that trust is the basis of all relationships.
In life, we are always accustomed to giving our sincerity to the people we trust most. Because of trust and reliability, we open our hearts and expose our weaknesses.
But what we fear most is often being deceived and used by people we trust.
When you show your sincerity, what you get in return is ruthless deception; when you are honest, what you hear is full of lies.
This kind of deception, no matter how intimate and affectionate it is, will eventually make everyone feel cold.
Just like the male protagonist in the TV series “I am Yu Huanshui”, he originally had a smooth career and a happy family, but he lost everything because of his habit of lying.
He forgot to buy milk, so he lied to his wife that the supermarket was sold out of milk; no one wanted to discuss business with him, so he lied to his apprentice and said the phone was busy; to prop up the scene, he bought cheap red wine for 78 yuan online, saying it was from the company High-end imported red wine worth two thousand.
His lies were exposed again and again, and others were disappointed in him again and again.
A broken heart cannot be warmed back; a lost trust cannot be recovered.
Trust is like a piece of white paper, it is wrinkled and cannot be restored to its original shape even if it is smoothed.
I remember what Tong Hua said in the book “Song in the Clouds”:
“I used to think that as long as I treat people well, people will also treat me well. If I treat others with sincerity, they will naturally treat me with sincerity. But later I realized that this is not true. People’s hearts in this world are very complex, with deception, suspicion, There is betrayal and hurt. I won’t lie to people, but I don’t trust anyone easily now.”
It is not easy to trust someone, but it is even more cherished to be trusted by others.
Therefore, whether it is family love or friendship, the long-term way to keep it fresh is to be a trustworthy person.
Be true to your word when you say it, be honest about what you do, be upright and aboveboard, exchange sincerity for sincerity, warmth for warmth, and trust for trust.
True Feelings
Writer Qi Jinnian said:
“In this world, if you meet someone who is truly good to you, you will lose one.”
In the vast sea of people, you will only meet a few people in your life who can treat you sincerely, are willing to talk to you, and always think about you.
Unfortunately, we often ignore their care, forget to cherish it, regard care as nagging, turn expectations into disappointment, and turn joy into despair.
It takes years to warm a heart; it only takes a moment to cool a heart.
In the movie “Forgive Him 77 Times”, the female protagonist loves the male protagonist deeply, but is ignored and hurt time and time again by the male protagonist.
She was heartbroken 77 times and forgave 77 times. However, her sincere efforts did not receive any true feedback from the male protagonist. In the end, she chose to turn around and leave resolutely.
A person’s sincerity cannot withstand perfunctory; a person’s true feelings cannot withstand neglect.
I have accumulated enough disappointments, the joy in my heart has slowly withered, and the true love has been exhausted. Even if there is reluctance, it is no longer worth looking back.
There is this sentence in NetEase Cloud hot reviews:
“If you like me, I will drop my guard to welcome your love; if you don’t like me that much, I will put on my protective shell again.”
The feelings between people are always mutual.
“Those who love others will always be loved by others; those who respect others will always be respected by others.”
When people interact with others, only when they give sincerity can they gain true love.
As long as we live our lives, we must never neglect those who care about us, never be indifferent to those who accompany us, never be ungrateful to those who are kind to us, receive responses for our efforts, and treasure them sincerely, so that true love can last forever.
There is only one heart in the human heart, don’t challenge it with indifference; trust is only once, don’t challenge it with lies; true love is only once, don’t use lies to deal with it.
Life comes and goes. May we be honest with each other, without deception or calculation, and be able to believe what we say;
The days ahead are not long. May we treat each other sincerely, not let down, not be perfunctory, and be able to cherish each other with all our hearts.