How can you tell if a guy is trustworthy? A friend who had just gone through a breakup asked me this question.

In reality, everyone wants to know the answer, but I think that to determine if a guy is trustworthy, you don’t need to spend a lifetime with him; just look at these three details.

As Yang Jiang once said, “You should believe that there will always be someone who will love you in the simplest way.”

In relationships, we will encounter all sorts of people. Some people like to play games, while others are genuinely kind. The former will torture you, while the latter will bring you good fortune.

On this emotional journey, we may all get hurt, and many people will give up on love after being hurt. But in reality, good love is worth fighting for.

Maybe you haven’t found someone who truly cares for you yet, but as time goes by and you become better, someone will come along and love you well. It’s not about how good the person is; it’s about how good they are to you.

If someone can give you a sense of security and loyalty, they will definitely bring you more happiness.

In the world of relationships, we don’t need to rush. If you haven’t found someone to accompany you for life, focus on becoming a better person, and you will attract someone better. To determine if a guy is trustworthy, you don’t need to spend a lifetime with him; just look at these three details.

Love Is Gentleness

What does it mean for a guy to truly love you? Everyone will have different answers, just like this saying: some people get drunk and become romantic, while others get drunk and become tearful.

In this world, there are few people who can truly bring you good emotions. Those who can treat you gently are often the ones who truly love you. Gentleness is the most precious treasure in the world, and gentle people are hard to come by.

In the world of relationships, we easily forgive ourselves but forget to forgive others.

I once received a message from a fan in the background, saying:

Later, she didn’t bother me anymore, and I didn’t receive dozens of calls from her every day. It was only later that I realized I had lost her.

When someone is very considerate of you, you might find them annoying or troublesome. But when they truly leave you, you’ll feel empty inside.

This is how relationships are. When someone is very considerate of you, if you don’t appreciate it, they will eventually leave you. A guy’s gentleness is often the best way to win a woman over. When you learn to treat a woman gently and romantically, they will become more dependent on you.

In the world of relationships, it’s hard to find a gentle guy. Learn to treat each other gently, and you’ll make a woman feel more secure. If you can’t even give a woman the basics, you’ll eventually lose her.

Love Is Concern

A woman will never leave a man because he’s poor; it’s because of repeated disappointments and hurt. People always crave love.

In the world of relationships, if you fight too much, you’ll naturally stop wanting to fight. If you lie too much, you’ll become numb. If you don’t get the answers you expect, you’ll stop expecting.

A woman’s gentleness is often earned through compromise and understanding. Those who understand everything will often become the coldest. In this world, there are many tough girls who will only fall in love with someone who truly loves them. If you disappoint them too many times, even if they deeply love you, they will stop talking to you.

If you truly love a girl, you should learn to give her more concern and care. Your concern is the biggest motivation and romance in her life.

Learn to give your partner a sense of security, which is the most basic reason for love. When you learn how to love someone, your relationship will become more elevated. If you don’t even know how to love, you’ll eventually lose each other.

Love Is Tolerance

I’ve received many private messages about relationship issues, and my deepest feeling is that people can be very strange. The more you cater to someone, the more they’ll take you for granted. The more you care, the more they’ll think they have the upper hand.

In the world of relationships, it’s the same. Love is not about one person’s sacrifice; it’s about mutual tolerance. Only when you learn to tolerate each other can you truly feel each other’s love.

For a woman, what they want is a sense of security in love. For a man, what they want is tolerance and understanding.

Only when you learn to tolerate each other can you truly feel each other’s love. There’s no perfect partner in the world of relationships; everyone has their strengths and weaknesses. But we should learn to see the strengths in each other, and then your love will become more harmonious.

Learning to tolerate is also a way of loving. When you can stand in each other’s shoes and think about issues, your love will become more solid.

To determine if a guy is truly trustworthy, you can’t just rely on what he says; you need to look at his attitude towards you. A guy who can stand in other people’s shoes will definitely not be bad. If you find such a guy, learn to cherish him well.