I closed my eyes and thought I could forget, but the tears I shed did not fool me.

How many people, by the time they meet true love, it is already too late.

Maybe it’s the shackles of reality, maybe it’s the shackles of responsibility, but you can’t stay together when you are truly in love. Once you are deeply in love, it becomes a burden.

British writer Faye Bailey said: “The sweetest thing is love, and the bitterest thing is love.”

Destined but not destined, it is a kind of helplessness that is like a trick of fate. No matter how much I love you in my heart, I can only watch it from a distance, think about it, read it, look forward to it, and cannot let it go or forget it. Only I know the bitterness and pain.

Although people who enter the heart will not forget just as soon as they forget, but we can at least do these two words to free ourselves.

01

There is nothing wrong with loving. What is wrong is falling in love with someone you shouldn’t love. After all, love is all about chance. If you meet the right person at the wrong time, it will be just an illusion after all.

Do you remember “The Bridges of Madison County”?

Francesca, the heroine, was drained of all her passion by a long and trivial marriage, until she met Robert Kincaid and felt a sense of compatibility and romance with him that she had never experienced before.

She fell in love with his gentlemanly humor; he fell in love with her simplicity and thoughtfulness. They were attracted to each other, but met at the wrong time. In the end, the two people could only separate with regret.

Love always makes people confused, and love always makes people unforgettable. It’s a pity that love has always been deep, but the fate is shallow!

In the relationship between men and women, the order of appearance is really important. If they meet too early, they will not be able to survive the passage of time; if they meet too late, they will be defeated by the rotation of time.

There is a saying that goes well: “No matter how good the past was, we can’t go back, so we have to look forward.”

In life, the most important thing not to be attached to is wrong feelings.

Since we are destined not to be together in this life, it is better to be relieved and turn over what should be turned over; let go over what should be past.

Just as Lin Qingxuan said: “Being spotless does not mean that there is no more dust, but that the dust lets it fly, and I am my own sunshine.”

The best state of mind in life is to be indifferent to gains and losses and just let everything happen!

02

“There is a kind of love called letting go. Giving up for love lasts forever…”

When I first heard this song, I just thought the melody was melancholy. Only when I grew up did I understand the helplessness in it.

There is a huge sea of people, and when we meet unexpectedly, love blooms quietly in our hearts. Everyone wants to hold on tightly and is afraid of losing.

However, the feelings held tightly in the hands may not last forever. If you cannot give each other the warmth and happiness you want and are too persistent, you will only get hurt. At this time, letting go is the final tenderness.

Since we can’t help each other, why not let each other forget each other in the rivers and lakes. From now on, we will be separated and we will be happy.

Just like what Feng Zikai said: “Since there is nowhere to escape, it is better to be happy. Since there is no pure land, it is better to have a pure heart. Since you have not got what you want, it is better to let go.”

In this world, love is deep and love is shallow, people gather and disperse, you just need to cherish your fate, there is no need to cling to it.

Falling in love with the wrong person is like a passing guest in life, destined to be unable to travel together in this life. After a brief encounter, one falls into mourning and the other drifts away with the wind.

In this case, why should we worry about joy and sorrow?

“If one day we pass by each other, I will stop, stare at your retreating back, and tell myself that I once loved that person.”

Just let this love hide in the years, stop at the lips and teeth, let yourself go, and it will fulfill the rest of your life!

03

There is a saying: “When you can’t forget a person or let go of a relationship, you have to remember that the past cannot be looked back on, and you will never give in to it for the rest of your life.”

In this life, if a person has not lost, he will not understand love; if he has not been frustrated, he will not understand life.

No matter life or love, it is never possible to go as you wish all the time. When everything does not develop as you expected, if you change the direction, you will find that life can still be exciting.

In life, only by not being sad, nostalgic, or complaining can you have the courage to face the past and start a better tomorrow.

Especially when it comes to relationships, there is no need to dwell on what is right or wrong. Instead of struggling, you might as well admit its significance to you. Like all past events, one day it will become history.

A poet once said: “In the sky, I saw the setting sun setting wine glasses at banquets in the distant mountains.”

Ten thousand years is too long, and the flowers are picked up in the morning and evening. From now on, live in the present, and the flowers will bloom naturally.

I hope that every day for the rest of my life, you and I can be bright but not sad, warm but not cold, and cherish the present and live up to what we love from now on.