Wanting to get closer and wanting to be kind to that person are instincts when you like someone.
Some people are very proactive and direct in their approach when they like someone, while others find it difficult to be direct and kind to the person they like.
The fear of not being liked back or not being appreciated often holds people back from being proactive and kind to the person they like.
In relationships, there are numerous examples where being kind to someone leads to disappointment.
When someone has experienced or witnessed such situations, it’s natural for them to be guarded and hesitant in expressing their feelings directly.
Regardless of gender, it’s normal to expect some reciprocation for our efforts when we like someone. However, it’s important not to overthink before knowing if the other person feels the same way.
Even if the chances of success seem slim, it’s worth making an effort and being kind to the person we like, just to see what might happen.
It’s okay if things don’t work out, at least we won’t regret not trying.
Initiating conversations, showing care, and expressing affection may result in being ignored or realizing that the other person doesn’t feel the same way. Despite potential losses, at least we were brave in front of love and that’s what matters.
The fear of regretting not doing something later on is greater than the fear of being unappreciated. Some people may not value our efforts, but there will be others who will understand.
Just like traveling to places that may not live up to expectations, one unsuccessful experience should not deter us from trying again. Similarly, one unsuccessful love experience should not make us doubt everyone.
No matter what we go through, we must always believe that there is someone out there who will appreciate and reciprocate our kindness.
Life may be tough and we may encounter unkind people, but we shouldn’t close ourselves off from the possibility of love.
We should continue to believe in love and be kind to the ones we love, just as passionately as we did the first time.
Some people may not reciprocate our kindness, while others will cherish even the smallest gestures.
When we like someone, we shouldn’t hesitate to be kind to them. It’s natural to be kind first and then assess if the person is worth it.
If they are, then we can continue being kind and let time reveal the potential of the relationship. If they are not, we can always withdraw our kindness and stop our efforts.
As for what has already been given, it’s best not to dwell on it too much. Consider it an investment in love.
On the journey of love, there will be people who come into our lives not to stay, but to teach us valuable lessons about love and growth.
If we encounter such people, it’s okay. Every step in life has meaning and serves a purpose.