Recently, news of a 22-year-old woman born in 1997 who died from being abused by her husband and in-laws due to infertility has sparked discussions online. The details of the incident, which took a year to surface, are chilling.

The woman, surnamed Fang, born in 1997, had some mental issues and got married at 19. She weighed over 160 pounds when she got married but was only around 60 pounds when she passed away.

A young woman in her early twenties, perhaps she hadn’t even experienced her prime due to her family background and unhappy marriage, her life came to a tragic end. Her fate was already sad enough, and a wrong marriage made it even worse.

In this short-lived marriage, what Fang went through and how much she suffered can be easily imagined. Otherwise, her life wouldn’t have ended at 22.

If there was any unresolved “resentment” between the couple, it was only due to selfishness. Because Fang couldn’t conceive, she faced abuse and blame from her in-laws, who thought they had made a bad deal by marrying her.

The issue is that marriage is protected by law!

As an individual with rights, she was not her husband’s property to be treated however they pleased.

It’s certain that the division of rights between spouses was nonexistent in this marriage.

As a woman, as a wife, Fang’s tragedy lies in being seen as a mere “childbearing tool” by her in-laws. The depth of marital feelings and happiness had never been the man’s concern.

From a life perspective, reaching such a tragic end is the greatest sorrow a woman can face in her lifetime.

There is a Kind of Marriage Only for Procreation

Is it a heinous crime for a woman to not bear children and deserves to be abused? There is no logic in marriage for that!

Enduring beatings, going hungry, facing “domestic violence” multiple times, can these actions really make her conceive? This is not the right way for a couple to solve their problems!

The actions of the man’s family are despicable beyond ordinary “domestic violence.”

This matter shouldn’t be judged too harshly. With the families living so close, why didn’t her family intervene earlier? Did they really think a married daughter is like water thrown out?

It’s a tragedy for a woman born into such a family. Marrying a husband who doesn’t care about her, her fate plunges into misery.

This woman’s experience raises some terrifying questions.

How many similar cases of “domestic violence” are silently happening around us?

How many women are mistreated by their in-laws for not bearing children?

This is a thought-provoking issue that is hard to bear.

There is a kind of marriage solely for the sake of procreation. As for marital feelings, it has nothing to do with love and affection, truly a woman’s lifelong sorrow.

We must admit that marrying the wrong person is the most painful thing in a woman’s life. If he lacks conscience, it’s like ruining a woman’s entire life.

In marriage, different people have different destinies. For a woman, it’s better not to marry a man who doesn’t care about her. If there is a chance to leave, it’s better to plan early.

Through this topic, I will share two ironic marriage cases worth contemplating. Some men are not worth a woman’s love.

In-Laws Insisted on Abandonment, She Firmly Gave Birth to a Son

In the first case, from the account of a woman.

In her words, she married the wrong person in this life, wasting ten years of her youth. Her husband was not only a mama’s boy but also a “male chauvinist.”

Mrs. Linda, at 33, was pregnant with her third child. Since the first two were girls, her mother-in-law had strong opinions about it. Even though her husband used to love her, he started resenting her for having two daughters, speaking to her with impatience.

This wasn’t her fault, but in the eyes of her in-laws, it was all Linda’s “bad luck.” Being too thin, she couldn’t bear a son. If she had been a bit plumper, the first child would have been a boy.

Of course, this was absurd, but after having two daughters consecutively, her in-laws grew anxious. To have a son, they tried many methods.

After becoming pregnant with the third child, her mother-in-law used connections to find out the gender. If it was a boy, everyone would be overjoyed. If it was another girl, they didn’t want the child.

Under her mother-in-law’s constant pressure, Linda went with her mother-in-law and husband for a “check-up.” Unfortunately, it was highly likely that she was carrying a girl.

This made her husband restless, and her mother-in-law even more so. They tried to persuade Linda to give up and try again next year.

Linda couldn’t bear it. Four months pregnant, how could she just give up? A child is a mother’s flesh and blood, even if it’s a girl, she couldn’t abandon it.

For this child, Linda and her husband had many arguments. Her husband was adamant about not keeping the child. Linda was resolute about keeping it.

Later, her husband resorted to violence, slapping her, and adamantly refusing to let her keep the child.

After being slapped by her husband, Linda went back to her parents’ home in anger and never returned to her husband. Her husband almost daily caused a scene outside her parents’ house, while her mother-in-law kept lamenting to everyone that this daughter-in-law was ruining her son and insisted Linda give up.

Despite enduring sadness, Linda persisted because she couldn’t bear to give up. Even if it meant divorce, she would keep the child. Months later, to the astonishment of her in-laws, Linda gave birth to a son.

This case is ironic and regrettable. Linda’s mother-in-law and husband regretted their actions, but Linda refused to reconcile with her husband.

Today, Linda has been divorced for over two years and is expecting a baby in her second marriage. The couple has decided that whether it’s a boy or a girl, as long as they love each other and the child is healthy, that’s all that matters.

As for Linda’s ex-husband, he is left with regret.

Unable to Bear Children, She Had Two Children

Continuing with the second case, from another woman’s account, even more ironic.

For a woman, one of the most humiliating things can be the inability to bear children, but this humiliation is not necessarily her fault.

Mrs. Prima, also divorced at 33. Despite having a good relationship, after over nine years of marriage without children, her husband abandoned her.

Since she was 19, Mrs. Prima had been with her husband (ex-husband). They had a good relationship, got married after a few years of dating, and started a family together. Unfortunately, year after year of marriage, they couldn’t conceive a child.

Mrs. Prima’s husband grew impatient, and her mother-in-law even more so. They gradually stopped treating Mrs. Prima as family. During arguments, her husband would always mock her for not having children, and her mother-in-law would often blame her for holding back her son.

Although Mrs. Prima underwent several check-ups that showed minor issues but not infertility, in her husband and mother-in-law’s eyes, these “minor issues” were major problems. In any case, her in-laws presumptuously believed that their daughter-in-law was infertile.

In the ninth year of marriage, Mrs. Prima’s husband found a girlfriend outside. The girlfriend became pregnant, and he heartlessly abandoned Mrs. Prima to marry the other woman.

Even if Mrs. Prima didn’t want a divorce, she had no choice in this situation. Feeling very inferior, she thought she was the problem for not being able to conceive.

Later, Mrs. Prima’s ex-husband did marry the other woman and they had a son. Since then, the family of three seemed happy on the surface.

Mrs. Prima gave up on her ex-husband, and after a year of being single, she fell in love again and remarried. Now, her current husband treats her well, and they have two children.

What a great irony!

Mrs. Prima once said: The one who should be ridiculed is him (her ex-husband), not me. It’s not my fault, it’s his. He thought having a child was just a joke…

In this case, after Mrs. Prima’s ex-husband learned the truth, he constantly argued with his wife. His second wife also left him, taking the child, and went back to her ex-boyfriend.

Today, Mrs. Prima and her family of four are happy, while her ex-husband lives alone. In another marriage, she proved her worth.

Don’t Assume Marriage Problems

Both stories above are true. No matter how many love and marriage stories you hear, none are as real and ironic as these.

Today, both women are quite happy with fulfilling families. It’s just that their ex-husbands are in a sorry state, perhaps never finding someone to spend the rest of their lives with.

Don’t assume marriage problems. When faced with relationship difficulties, women must understand that loving someone is not a luxury but a sincere and steadfast mutual affection. When that man no longer sees you as a wife, he is no longer worth your efforts.

Regarding the issue of having children in marriage, sometimes you have to leave it to fate. Forcing it can lead to more suffering. Whether it’s a boy or a girl is up to destiny. A good couple won’t let gender issues harm their relationship. Otherwise, the marriage is just a compromise.

Some relationships break and can never be mended. Some people leave and will never return. As the saying goes, a woman fears marrying the wrong man. A good man who truly cares for his wife will understand that the most important aspects of marriage are mutual understanding and true affection.

For women, when choosing a partner, the most important thing is not how good the man’s family background is or how much dowry he can provide. It’s why he’s marrying you, whether it’s because he genuinely loves you.