When a woman truly loves you, she is willing to be cute with you, even if it means using some seemingly harsh words.
Some of the “dirty words” she uses may actually convey her deep affection for you.
Making a fuss is a form of dependence, politeness is for strangers. When a woman can’t be without you, it shows how important you are to her.
When a woman likes to curse you with these three dirty words, it’s not that she doesn’t like you, but that she sees you as family.
Big Dummy
I’ve been married to my husband for five years, and I’ve always saved his name in my phone as this.
The first time my husband accidentally saw this name, he thought I was scolding him, but over time, he got used to it.
Because he understood that although I often criticize him, I love him deeply inside.
I remember one time when it was raining, he forgot his umbrella and came back all wet, and I scolded him.
When he was too busy with work to eat, I always made food for him and brought it to him.
When he didn’t know how to take care of himself, I couldn’t help but lose my temper.
At first, he couldn’t accept my behavior, but as time went on, he couldn’t do without me.
Relationships between spouses need to be nurtured and maintained. When a woman truly loves you, she will be considerate and caring towards you.
Such a woman has a sharp tongue but a tender heart.
In reality, she sees you as her child.
Only when a woman doesn’t love you will she distance herself from you or even be indifferent towards you.
If a woman is willing to joke with you, or even flirt with you intentionally or unintentionally, it shows her deep love for you.
Big Pig’s Trotter
In daily life, when we hear the term “big pig’s trotter,” we might think it’s derogatory.
But if it’s said by your loved one, it’s actually a form of endearing teasing.
The dynamics between men and women are subtle. As the saying goes, “Men are not bad, women do not love.”
Sometimes, a little bit of mischief from a man can make a woman like him even more. Interactions between the opposite sexes require a bit of charm. When a woman calls you a big pig’s trotter, it’s actually a way of getting closer to you.
When a woman truly loves you, she may find you childish. Using terms like “big pig’s trotter” is sometimes a way of being cute. When a woman calls a man a big pig’s trotter, it’s either to describe him as lacking in romance or as an endearing nickname, just a way for a woman to show affection in front of you.
In relationships, “big pig’s trotter” doesn’t necessarily have negative connotations; it represents a woman’s love for you. Making a fuss is a form of dependence, politeness is for strangers.
When a woman drops her guard around you, it means she considers you as her own.
Are You a Pig?
Every time I argue with my husband, I always say this, simply because he lacks romance.
When we give each other the silent treatment, I actually wish he would come and make up with me, but my husband, unlike other men, only knows how to act like nothing is wrong.
I remember yesterday, right after we argued, I decided to give him the silent treatment because I hoped he would come and make up with me. But the next day, he was still going about his business as usual, acting like nothing was wrong, asking me about this and that. Seeing this, I got even angrier and always ended up using this phrase on him.
Every time he hears me say this, he knows where he went wrong and quickly comes to apologize.
In a relationship, what a girl wants is not about winning or losing but about a man’s unconditional love and care. When a woman says this to you, it’s not an insult but rather an expression of love.
Men and women are different. Men are more rational when in a relationship, while women tend to be more emotional.
Many times, faced with a woman’s quirks and stubbornness, many men are left puzzled, and that’s perfectly normal.
Often, faced with a man’s lack of romance, women have long gotten used to it.
When a woman sees you as her own, she will have relaxed and pleasant conversations with you.
Loving you leads to having some small quirks.
When a woman is willing to act silly with you, it shows how important you are to her.
Women always speak their minds but have a soft heart. As the saying goes, “Don’t try to guess a girl’s mind, for it’s beyond understanding.” In relationships, many women are sharp-tongued but tender-hearted. Therefore, as a man, understanding women better can help nurture love.
Haruki Murakami once said, “If we love each other, we’ll grow old together; if we miss the chance, we’ll protect each other in our hearts.”
Love is simple yet beautiful.
Conflicts are inevitable in relationships, but we must learn to resolve them. The three phrases above do not indicate a woman’s disdain for you; instead, they show that she sees you as family.