“It’s only love and a cough that cannot be concealed.”

When a man deeply loves someone, he can’t help but think of that person and wants to get in touch with them.

From daily behaviors, you can also see how much he cares about the other person.

Men are more rational when it comes to emotions, but once they fall in love with someone, they can’t help themselves.

A man’s thoughts are often expressed in these ways, and he can’t conceal them.

Showing Concern for the Other Person

A friend told me that her boyfriend is a very loving person, but he never knows how to show concern for her, possibly because he’s a bit numb.

My friend said that even though they’re in a long-distance relationship, her boyfriend always says he loves her, so she trusts him completely.

However, if someone truly loves you, they will think of you and show concern for you.

I visited my friend’s home one day and found out she had a stomachache. When she told her boyfriend about it, he just coldly said, “Then you should go to bed early!”

As the saying goes, “When you’re in the situation, you’re confused, but when you’re outside, you’re clear-headed.”

If a man treats you like this, it means he doesn’t take you seriously and doesn’t love you. He’s never thought of you.

Some people, even though they’re in a long-distance relationship, will still show concern for the woman they love. When they see the woman they love is unwell, they’ll get anxious.

Those who only say they miss you but don’t take action to prove it, and won’t comfort or help you when you’re in trouble, don’t love you.

Asking the Other Person Out

In a TV series, the male lead fell in love with the female lead, and every time he went home, he couldn’t help but think of her.

Although they were in the same school, every evening he would ask her out to play.

In fact, men are more proactive in relationships. If they love someone, they’ll definitely ask that person out.

Some people think that if a man loves a woman, he might be afraid she’ll be with someone else, so he’ll try to spend as much time with her as possible.

Actually, if a man loves a woman, he’ll often use this method to express his thoughts because when you see the person, your thoughts will finally be alleviated, which is the most direct way.

I still remember when my boyfriend and I first got together, every morning he would wait for me downstairs and buy me breakfast.

So, if a man truly misses someone, it’s hard to conceal.

Constantly Sending Messages

Some women have experienced this phenomenon in relationships:

The messages they send are like stones sinking into the ocean, and yet they don’t realize the man doesn’t love them, thinking he might be busy.

If someone truly loves you, they’ll definitely take the initiative to find you, and men are no exception. Some people might be really busy, but they’ll still make time to find you.

If you find that in a relationship, the other person never takes the initiative to explain themselves, it means they don’t have you in their heart.

Sometimes women make excuses for the other person, but in reality, they’re just deceiving themselves.

The relationship might have already ended, and when the other person stops looking for you, it’s already proven everything.

However, some people still cling to the last straw, hoping the other person still loves them.

If in life you encounter a man who constantly sends you messages, no matter how busy he is, he’ll still send you many messages, even if he’s just thinking of you.

Maybe some people will think such a man is boring, but in reality, men who pursue progress and contact women are not contradictory.

Some people might be very busy, but because they miss you, they’ll take the initiative to find you. Some people might not be busy at all, but because you’re not in their heart, they’ll find someone else in their free time and won’t look for you.

Therefore, a person’s busyness doesn’t affect their initiative.

Becoming More Effortful

“When a woman becomes more effortful, it means she’s encountered setbacks in her emotions; when a man becomes more effortful, it means he’s accepting this beautiful love.”

When a man falls in love with someone, he wants to give the best to the other person.

Just like some men who fall in love and become extremely effortful, unlike their previous idle selves.

Sometimes a woman can change a man, whether in movies or in real life, and there are many such examples.

So, if a man becomes more effortful after being with a woman, doing everything with the woman in mind, and making himself better, it means he’s taken responsibility, which is why he’s become more effortful.

When a man falls in love with a woman, his sense of responsibility begins, and if you find that a man becomes more serious and effortful after meeting you, it’s because of the woman’s influence.

A man becomes more effortful because he wants to be better for the woman he loves.

Shakespeare said, “Life is short, but if you live it in a lowly manner, it’s too long.”

Life is short, and women should find a man who truly loves them to live a happy life, not for anyone else, but for themselves.