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“What do women think when couples live apart for a long time?” Three married women tell the truth

Distance can be beautiful, but sometimes when the distance is too far, it can create unexpected barriers.

“Distance can be beautiful, but sometimes when the distance is too far, it can create unexpected barriers.”

In today’s society, many people have to leave their homes and loved ones due to the demands of life.

Couples living apart for a long time is very common nowadays. Some men, besides focusing on their work, also consider their wives’ feelings.

What do women feel when couples live apart for a long time? Three women reveal the truth.

Casual, no feelings

Mrs. Wang married her husband a long time ago. Within three years of marriage, her husband started traveling frequently for work, leading to a life of being apart more than together.

Mrs. Wang mentioned that despite the frequent separations, she didn’t have many feelings about it. She didn’t marry her husband out of love but because of his wealth.

Some people may have their own standards when marrying someone. Some marry for money, so they don’t mind being apart from their husbands.

Just like Mrs. Wang, perhaps her husband saw her as a sensible and understanding woman. He might not get upset even though he was frequently away on business trips.

Men often think that such women are sensible and won’t cause trouble. But have they ever considered that someone who married them for love would care?

A woman who cares about a man will definitely feel uneasy when he is often away.

Mrs. Wang admitted that she never cared about her husband, only about the money he could provide.

She often flaunted designer bags and clothes, making many women envious in the neighborhood.

However, some women mocked Mrs. Wang, considering her as just a rich widow. Having money doesn’t matter if she doesn’t have her husband by her side.

But Mrs. Wang knew deep down that having a husband who is nonchalant and can provide money is crucial to her, not having money is a big problem, not having a man is just a minor issue.

For women who marry for money, it doesn’t matter whether their husbands are by their side or not.

Such women are often seen as sensible by their husbands because if a woman becomes too clingy after marriage, the husband might think she lacks ambition and doesn’t understand him.

In reality, men fail to realize that this behavior is just a sign of a woman not loving her husband.

Feeling the love between them has faded

Mrs. Liu and her husband also live apart. Over the years, Mrs. Liu has sacrificed a lot for their children, but her husband is rarely by her side.

Mrs. Liu does everything at home by herself, feeling like a woman without a man. She has to work outside as well since her husband doesn’t provide any money.

Mrs. Liu was once a beautiful woman whom many pursued, but she chose to be with her husband.

Thinking that believing in love would bring happiness, Mrs. Liu was disappointed to find herself doing everything alone after marriage.

Initially, she had some fantasies that her husband might come back to be with her, but as time passed, she became increasingly disheartened, feeling that her husband might never return.

A woman easily loses hope if the man she loves cannot reciprocate. Mrs. Liu is one such woman.

Her husband claims to be doing business outside but never contributes to the family’s expenses, leaving Mrs. Liu to handle everything alone, including their child.

Initially hopeful, she now feels like she’s living a single life.

In today’s society, many women in such relationships not only experience physical distance but also emotional neglect from their husbands. All burdens fall on the women’s shoulders.

Many women marry for love, only to realize later that it’s a burden. By then, it’s too late to regret.

Hence, women who believe in love often end up in unfortunate situations, much like Mrs. Liu.

These women love deeply, but if their love is repeatedly taken for granted, they, too, will become disheartened.

Women start to suspect: Is their husband seeing someone else?

When couples live apart, women often start suspecting if their husbands are involved with someone else.

When they can’t see each other, women, who value relationships, tend to overthink, not because they distrust their husbands but because they care about them.

In emotional matters, women often lack a sense of security.

Mrs. Li next door is one such woman. After living separately from her husband for a long time, she becomes paranoid and sometimes calls him in the middle of the night out of habit.

Sometimes, when she calls him late at night, he gets startled. Mrs. Li listens carefully to check if there’s anyone else on the line.

At times, Mrs. Li sends photos of their child to her husband’s phone, hoping he will remember this family waiting for him to return.

Women tend to overthink and doubt when apart from their partners. Even though they suspect their husbands, they are still better than women who don’t care about their partners. However, women who constantly doubt their husbands usually don’t have a good ending, despite their sacrifices.

When couples live apart, what goes on in a woman’s mind? The three women above provide their answers.

In this world, everyone wants their loved ones to be with them forever, unless they don’t love the person beside them.