When exploring the deeper layers of human nature, we must look at women who always find reasons and excuses for men’s actions. This kind of behavior is a trap in emotional relationships and a careless abandonment of self-interest.

Understanding human nature, especially the nature of men, does not mean rationalizing their behavior. Even if you love the other person deeply, you must put away your virgin heart and understand that protecting your own interests is the prerequisite for happiness and being loved.

The other person’s past, childhood experiences, psychological problems, etc. have nothing to do with you. These are not reasons for him to disrespect you, nor are they excuses for his behavior.

If he really has psychological problems, he should seek professional help instead of trying to treat his own problems through love. This is irresponsible, delays the condition, and even hurts innocent people.

Some men will package themselves as the weak ones in the relationship, carry out moral kidnapping, emotionally exploit you, and ask for material subsidies. Men who demand extra attention from you, tolerate excessive tempers, and condone bad behavior are taking advantage of your kindness, ignorance, and stupidity.

You have to understand that every time men do something shameful, they weigh the pros and cons and predict the consequences. If he dares to do it, it means that he has already thought of a countermeasure and knows how to treat you.

Don’t send the wrong signals. When you feel offended or disrespected, express your rejection directly and show your ruthlessness. Only by rejecting excessive behavior can you protect yourself and gain respect.

Don’t be affected by wrong moral disciplines, don’t be tolerant and tolerant, let alone heal the other person’s past. If you do not take the initiative to create a relationship that is beneficial to you and do not defend your own boundaries, you will only suffer the loss.

Remember, your other half does not have the ability to solve your problems. They need to deal with past events themselves and correct their attitude.

The responsible behavior of a man is to proactively seek professional help instead of forcing problems on his partner and letting others bear the pain. Refuse to become a substitute for their problems, protect yourself, and become a stronger, independent individual.