In the TV series “The Legend of Ruyi”, the female lead is someone who doesn’t know how to play the game, thinking that being genuine and sincere is enough to move others. But in the end, she still ends up losing out.
Sometimes, women think that being genuine is enough, because when men and women talk about love, women like to receive men’s sincerity and honesty. But women should not just use their own thinking to measure a man’s feelings, or they might end up losing out.
In love, one needs to be skilled and sometimes, if you don’t have some tricks up your sleeve, the relationship might not last. The women who can make men fall head over heels are those who have their own abilities, whether in dealing with emotions or emotional intelligence.
So, smart women will learn to play the game, and only then can the two people in the relationship truly connect.
True Love Requires Some Tricks Up Your Sleeve
“True love requires some tricks up your sleeve.” This is a very familiar phrase, and it’s also a classic phrase in today’s society.
We’ve already passed the era where:
- We took our time, and the journey was long, loving only one person in a lifetime.
- We lived a stable life, not venturing out, and staying at home.
There will always be temptations around us, and sometimes we can’t resist them, and neither can our loved ones.
So, in love, you need to have some tricks up your sleeve, or else you’ll lose out.
Some women feel that they’ve given their all in love, but in the end, they still lose out, getting hurt and feeling hopeless. At this point, they might think that they’ll never believe in love again and want to be single for the rest of their lives.
A broken relationship can make women lose faith in love and overturn their views on love.
Like in a TV series, when Xin Zhilei got divorced, she went crazy, saying, “You made me lose faith in love, you made me lose faith in marriage… how can you make it up to me?”
So, sometimes using some tricks can avoid some losses. Don’t think that using tricks is unfair to the other person. If you don’t use tricks, you’ll end up losing out in the relationship and hurting yourself.
Even if you have deep feelings for the other person, you should still use some small tricks to make the man fall deeply in love with you and cherish you.
A Woman Who Can Get Things Done Will Make Men Look Up to Her
In “The Heaven Sword and Dragon Saber”, Zhao Min is a very strong-willed person, but in the end, she still ended up with the man she loved.
Although Zhao Min is a strong-willed person, she knows how to get things done and use tricks. So, in the end, the male lead saw her advantages and started to admire her, and the two of them ended up together.
When I was young, I didn’t understand this, but later I realized that a woman who can use tricks and rules to get things done will make men look up to her.
Maybe some women, in order to love a man, will always be very obedient and think that being a good girl is the best. But in the end, they might get dumped and be seen as foolish.
So, women can be a little childish, but sometimes they need to have their own rules, or else men won’t take them seriously.
Sometimes you’ll find that women will fall in love with a man because they admire him, and men will also fall in love with a woman because they admire her.
Leave Some Room in Your Heart When You’re Being Sincere
I remember when I first started college, there were a series of things that happened in my dorm and class, and I felt that college life was very complicated.
One evening, I was chatting with my best friend, and she told me that sometimes, even when you’re being sincere, you need to leave some room in your heart. This way, you’ll be more relaxed, and the other person will be more relaxed too.
At that time, I realized that when dealing with people, you don’t need to be too sincere, but you need to have your own thoughts.
Sometimes, leaving some room in your heart can make others feel comfortable, and you’ll feel more comfortable too.
You need to know that human nature is complex, whether in your personal relationships or when interacting with others. Having some room in your heart is essential.
The women who can make men fall deeply in love with them are those who have tricks up their sleeves.
Tricks Are the Methods and Steps of Love
Sometimes, tricks are the methods and steps of love. When two people are together, the woman who really loves the man will be very emotional, and her IQ will drop to zero.
But sometimes, you’ll find that some women are very calm, and they can calm the man down too.
Because women know that when they argue, they might say hurtful things, and once they’re said, they can’t be taken back. So, smart women will use their gentleness to touch the man’s heart or use other methods to calm him down.
In our surroundings, there are many people who haven’t done anything wrong, but because they said hurtful things, they ended up breaking up.
So, sometimes you need to pay attention to the methods and steps of love.
Like some women who, when they’re with a man, give him everything, and the man will eventually lose interest and think that the woman is very casual.
So, smart women will never do this, but instead, will take things step by step, leading the man onto their own track.
When a woman shows her generosity and gentleness in front of the man, and also shows her intelligence, the man will think that she’s a lovable and independent woman who knows how to love herself.
At this point, the man will think that the woman is worth his efforts and will fall deeply in love with her.
What’s meant by “tricks” is not that women do things that are unfair to men or use tricks to make men lose out.
Rather, women use tricks to make their relationships with men better, to make their emotions warmer, and to move forward into the future.
The adult world is not a world of doing whatever you want, and there’s no such thing as “I’ll be good to you, and you’ll definitely be good to me”. In the adult world, there needs to be rules and tricks, or else there won’t be a beginning or an end, and love is the same.