I once read in a book: “Marriage is like a walled city; those outside want to get in, while those inside want to get out.”

I used to not fully grasp the meaning of this sentence, but as I’ve grown older, I find it increasingly relevant and a reminder for many of us.

Marriage is indeed challenging, and I hope everyone can cherish it.

Mia and her husband have been married for seven years. Before marriage, he showered her with love and care. However, after marriage, due to work and life pressures, his affection towards her diminished.

This made Mia unhappy, feeling neglected by her husband.

His indifference led to significant arguments between them.

Once, due to a child-related issue, they even gave each other the silent treatment for almost half a month, almost leading to divorce. Eventually, they both compromised.

In the first couple of years of marriage, they faced significant challenges in their relationship. However, after going through rough patches, they began to understand each other’s importance better.

During their toughest times, they held hands and walked through it together, making them cherish each other even more.

After seven years, their relationship has undergone significant changes.

Disputes and conflicts between spouses are not frightening; what’s scary is not knowing how to resolve them.

Don’t easily get angry and argue in a marriage. It not only strains the relationship but also adds pressure. Only when you learn to cherish each other can you truly understand the meaning of love.

In today’s fast-paced love era, many divorces happen simply because people fail to cherish each other. Some couples split after over 20 years due to a third party, driven by a desire for novelty.

Cherish Each Other’s Company

As the saying goes, “Being there is the best way to show you care.” It’s natural for couples to argue, but remember, don’t be too harsh on each other. When you feel helpless, remember who stands by you unconditionally.

In this world, genuine companionship is rare. Those willing to stand by you unconditionally truly love you.

Cherish Each Other’s Feelings

The fundamental reason for entering marriage is love. Why do couples who were affectionate before marriage start quarreling afterward? The root cause is often a lack of communication.

Some couples in love for over 20 years split due to various reasons. This regret is profound. As we age, we realize the importance of love when that person truly leaves us.

So, by cherishing each other’s feelings, we can live a life without regrets in love.

Cherish Each Other’s Efforts

When in love, we wholeheartedly devote ourselves. If someone truly loves you, they are willing to give their all for you.

Encountering someone who loves you deeply is rare; cherish them when you do.

When you find someone willing to devote themselves to you, don’t forget to love them in return.

Coming together isn’t easy; good love is rare.

Everyone hopes for love, but when you find it, cherish it.

Marriage is sacred. If we choose a relationship, we must learn to nurture it. Disagreements are inevitable when two people are together.

Some couples grow closer through arguments, while others drift apart. The key lies in the approach; a happy life requires joint effort.

Cherishing each other is essential in creating love. Only when both fully understand these four words can their love blossom.

As Roland said, “We need not force love, but we must take responsibility for marriage.”

This reminds us of the importance of marriage. May we all understand the essence of cherishing and may all lovers unite in the end.