A man’s mouth can be deceiving. In real life, a man’s promises may not be reliable. For men, their love is shown through actions, not just sweet words. When a man develops feelings for you, it always comes down to two words: being serious.
McKale once said, “Love is a shared experience between two people.”
Recently, a reader shared a story about his feelings. Here is an excerpt from his letter:
After graduating from college, I returned to the United States. At that time, my family was financially stable, so many girls who dated me were after my money.
My first love was a classmate in college. However, due to family reasons after graduation, we had to break up. I dated a few other girls after that, but the relationships didn’t feel right. Maybe true love doesn’t exist in this world. So, I stopped expecting anything from relationships.
Later, at a friend’s gathering, I met her. She was a gentle and lovely girl, quite lively. She took the initiative to contact me, and we started hanging out frequently.
I initially thought she was no different from other girls, but her influence on me was completely unique.
She wasn’t from a wealthy family. Even after work, she worked part-time at a restaurant. Honestly, though she seemed carefree on the surface, her dedication moved me.
I pursued her actively and was willing to spend a lot of money on her. However, she found my actions laughable.
I don’t know where I went wrong. I was serious about her. No other girl had made me feel this way. I don’t want to lose her, so I hope you can help me.
Listening to his story, perhaps everyone can relate a little. From this man, I felt his firm attitude towards love. Perhaps only deep love can lead to such seriousness.
Driven by a Sense of Responsibility
Wilde once said, “If a man’s love is not devoted, any woman with him will not feel happy.”
In this era of fast-paced relationships, finding someone who truly loves you is not easy. We all crave sweet love, but not many can truly give in love.
For a man, a sense of responsibility is crucial in love. When a man genuinely starts to care for a woman, he will take on his responsibilities.
A man who loves you will make you feel secure because he knows how to protect your vulnerabilities. A man who doesn’t love you will only make excuses. So, when a man shows his sense of responsibility, it means he loves you.
Planning Your Future Together
Everyone has their own life path. Whether two people intersect depends on their lifestyle. When a man includes you in his future plans, it shows his love for you.
Men also weigh pros and cons in love. Only when a man truly loves a woman, he will bring a future for her. Including you in his future plans is a sign of his affection.
Being Good to Only You
When a man genuinely likes you, he will treat you as his one and only. He will often treat you specially because he wants to make you feel secure.
In reality, finding someone who truly cares for you is not easy. If a man is good to only you, it shows his genuine feelings for you. A man in love will treat you well in various ways, while someone who doesn’t love you will make excuses. When a girl becomes the only one in a boy’s heart, that’s when the man will truly care for her.
Weiss once said, “Love that heats up quickly also cools down quickly.”
For a man, being serious is the most important aspect in a relationship. When a man truly falls for you, he will prioritize you.
His sense of responsibility is his way of taking responsibility for you. A man who truly loves you won’t want to see you sad. They will provide you with security in the relationship. Being with such a man will bring you more happiness.
After a man falls in love, his actions cannot be hidden. You can see his love for you in the details. If you encounter such a boy, make sure to cherish him, as some people only come once.
We all have high hopes for love. So, when love arrives, let’s cherish it. Don’t miss out or disappoint a boy’s deep affection for you. When a man becomes serious, he will love you more and be willing to make sacrifices for you.