They say, “Lust is a man’s nature, and being lewd is a cultivated virtue.” But every man’s level of lewdness is different.

In reality, men can’t help but be a little lewd, but they can’t be too lewd either. A man who is just right, with a touch of lewdness, is the kind of guy women want.

When a man is deeply in love with one woman, it’s called deep emotions. But if he’s like that with many women, he’s just a player.

Women naturally hope to meet a man who is the former, and if they encounter the latter, they’ll definitely want to get out of there quickly to avoid getting hurt.

So, how do you judge if a man is a low-level “lewd” guy? Women should be aware that lewd men will often exhibit these three behaviors, so don’t be fooled.

He Loves Talking About Women

Listen to what a man says to figure out what’s on his mind. A man who’s focused on his career will talk about work; a gamer will talk about games; and a sports enthusiast will talk about sports.

Similarly, a lewd man will always be talking about women. He might even check out women on the street, discussing their physical appearance and body shape.

Even if a man doesn’t admit to being lewd, if he exhibits this behavior, he’s definitely got a lewd streak.

In life, we often encounter men who can’t stop talking about women, while others show no interest in the topic. This contrast makes it clear whether a man is lewd or not.

His Attitude Towards “Beautiful” and “Ugly” Women is Obvious

As Chen Liang said, “Lust can corrupt a man’s heart, and wine can ruin a man’s morals.”

A lewd man is easily tempted by a beautiful woman and will go out of his way to impress her, just to satisfy his desires.

By observing a man’s behavior, we can see that his attitude towards “beautiful” and “ugly” women is very revealing. For example, Chen Bing is a typical lewd guy who always denies it, but his actions betray him.

When a beautiful woman asks for his help, he’s more than happy to oblige, even if it means losing out. But if the woman is average-looking, his attitude is completely different, and he won’t even bother to help with small tasks.

The reason is simple: he’s very lewd and only shows enthusiasm for beautiful women, hoping for further developments. But for average-looking women, he has no illusions and won’t bother.

His Emotions Won’t Last Long

For lewd men, they only see a woman’s physical appearance, not her inner beauty. No matter how kind a woman is, if she’s not good-looking, she’s invisible to them.

But if a woman is beautiful, even if she’s lazy and arrogant, men will still be infatuated with her body and face, willing to do anything for her.

However, emotions based on physical attraction can’t last long. Once a man gets what he wants, he’ll get bored or find someone even more beautiful, and his emotions will fade away.

As San Mao said, “Love is like a colorful balloon, no matter how beautiful, it can’t withstand a prick.”

Without a true heart as the foundation, emotions can’t withstand any tests or temptations.

In love, what we fear most is when men crave women’s bodies, while women crave men’s emotions. In the end, one gets bored, the other gets nothing, and the relationship ends.

As Shakespeare said, “The world is a stage, and all men and women are just actors, with their own entrances and exits.”

On this stage, different men play different levels of lewdness. The difference lies in whether a man controls his lewdness or is controlled by it. The former is a true gentleman, while the latter is a womanizer.

As they say, “Men crave women’s bodies, while women crave men’s emotions.”

Women easily lose their rationality when they fall in love, while men easily lose their rationality when they see a beautiful woman, only seeing her physical appearance.

As women, we naturally hope to meet a man who is sincere and serious about his emotions. When it comes to beauty, Bacon said, “In terms of beauty, inner beauty surpasses physical beauty, and elegant behavior surpasses inner beauty.”

To avoid being hurt by lewd men, women should understand what true beauty is, rather than just focusing on physical appearance.