Our attitudes towards different people will be very different, and our behavior will also be very different when we are in good or bad moods.

It is precisely because of this that some people always suggest that if you want to see a person clearly, you should not just see how good he is when he is at peace with each other, but what he is like when he is quarreling.

Indeed, when nothing happens, everyone can be very sensible, very reliable, and very loving to you.

And when there is a conflict, it is always easy for a person to become irrational. Unconsciously, he will reveal his truest self, his truest attitude towards you, and his lowest level of character.

Arguing reveals people’s hearts. If you choose a person and quarrel with him, you will understand a lot.

People who lose control of their emotions and act excessively are terrible.

I know a couple. On weekdays, the man is very doting on the woman. He always takes her to and from get off work, buys some gifts for her, and often shows affection in front of others to show how much he loves his wife.

Others think that a woman is lucky to have met a good husband, but she herself does not feel this way.

Privately, when two people live together, stumbling is inevitable. Whenever a problem arises, the man will seem to be a different person. Not only will he throw things, but he will also attack women. He said that he couldn’t control himself and it was because he loved her so much that he went so far.

Every time, he would lose control and make women very scared, but then he would apologize in various ways and promise not to do it again. It’s a pity that he promised it many times and it will still be the same next time.

A person like this who loses control too easily has a very flawed character. It’s not because of love that he can’t control himself, but because he doesn’t know how to control himself. With him, you can’t say when. , you will become very dangerous.

When you meet such a person, don’t always think about changing him. If you can, it’s better to make more plans for yourself so that you can live with peace of mind.

It would be selfish to only want to make you surrender.

In conflicts between two people, some issues are right or wrong, but most are not, but they just have different opinions. Normally, the other party should be able to have a friendly discussion with you and seek common ground while reserving differences.

And if the person you are with doesn’t know how to respect your thoughts at all, and doesn’t care about the facts, he just wants to convince you and make you admit what he said, and he will constantly reason with you and use the cold war to force you. You, he is probably not a good person.

He is completely unable to accept different opinions and just wants you to surrender to him. He either has limited knowledge or does not know how to take into account other people’s feelings and can only see himself.

Unless you really admire him and can listen to him on everything without feeling uncomfortable, you’d better not choose such a person. Being with him will be particularly depressing and always uncomfortable.

More likely, you will get a little lost, never find your own value, and feel bad about yourself.

There are too many conflicts that cannot be resolved by each other. Of course, the relationship will not be very good, and life will only be sad.

People who are willing to coax you are really nice.

No matter how nice a person is to you at ordinary times, his true colors are revealed when we quarrel. His kindness is limited.

A really good person. Not only can he pamper you in ordinary life, but he can still stay rational even if he quarrels, and can communicate with you well. He doesn’t care so much about winning or losing. He only wants to accommodate you and not let the quarrel affect you. feelings between.

The person who can still be so graceful and make you feel comfortable even when quarreling is not only good in character and well-educated, but also because he has you in his heart and loves you, so for him, there is nothing. It’s more important to be in a better mood than you are.

When someone cares about you so much even when they have a quarrel, you don’t have to think too much and can walk towards him boldly. Life is never easy, but if there is someone who always loves you and spoils you, no matter how hard the years are, they will seem sweeter.

If you are lucky enough to meet someone who is so willing to give in to you, you can be more willful, but you must also know how to cherish his love for you. Don’t go too far. When he gives in to you, give him a share of the offer so that he can feel it too. to your love.

Love requires mutual fulfillment, not always the other person giving or you sacrificing.

Quarrel is the best way to see a person clearly, what kind of person he is, and what kind of feelings he has towards you.

In this life, choosing whom to marry is a very important thing.

In order to be able to choose the right person, when choosing, don’t just spend time with one person, but have more communication.

Talk about your views on everything, talk about how you see the future, and also experience some conflicts over the years to see if you can have a happy conversation and agree with each other, but you can’t successfully overcome the quarrels.

There is no way to resolve conflicts, there are just out-of-control emotions. The person who refuses to give in to you will not be your destination.

A good choice will be someone who can always talk to you well, is really compatible with you, and is willing to accommodate you.

When two people are together, quarreling will not affect their relationship. Even if there are many problems in the future, it will not be a big deal.