When you think of love, what comes to your mind? Is it the blooming smile of the green years? Is it the pounding heartbeat of the first meeting? Or is it the persistence of holding hands? Love is something that everyone wants, but love is mostly not that perfect. It may take care of others, but it never takes care of you. Sometimes you may fall asleep halfway through, leaving you alone in silent sadness. When it comes to love, I like Chung Liti’s point of view, “I am always passionate about love at all times.” In fact, no one has been hurt several times in love, it’s just a matter of how many times. Many people tend to only focus on the beginning of love, but dare not face the end of love. This is not the best attitude towards love. You have to be able to take it up and let it go, be able to accept the beginning of love, and also be able to accept the end of love. After all, the beginning and the end are both parts of love. In fact, if you want to get a happy love, you need to understand these few principles! Let’s take a look together.

1. Before loving others, you must first learn to love yourself

Many people tend to hand over the keys to happiness and joy to their partners. In fact, the best lover is not one who gives blindly or takes all he wants. The best way to love someone is to manage yourself well and give the other person a high-quality lover. If you don’t do your best to be nice to someone, that person will love you desperately. You are valuable and your efforts will be valued. People must love themselves first, and then others will love them. Love is more like a game. To love others better, you must first love yourself better. When we love ourselves desperately and strive to achieve ourselves, it is actually the time when we love someone the most.

2. All love is conditional

Don’t say you love someone unconditionally. Love is always conditional. You can ask for nothing, but you want him to love you. Isn’t this a condition? Why do you like someone? Some said that I fell in love with his appearance, some said that he was very good to me, some said that he was very capable and charming, and some said that he could give me a sense of security… There is no love without reason, all love is Conditional. I remember there was a quarrel and I said angrily: “When you are with me, don’t you just think that I am hardworking and hardworking?” The other party resisted: “You like me because you think I have a good character and can tolerate you?” So, don’t expect it. Others fall in love with you unconditionally. Everyone has set limits for love, such as height, family background, job, personality, appearance… they are all called attraction. Regardless of men or women, in the long river of time, nothing is more important than cultivating yourself. Learning to increase self-value is a lesson that always needs to be learned on the road to love. If you bloom, butterflies will come.

3. Just love seriously and don’t care too much about the results.

Because no one can predict the final result, but you will be so happy and happy in the process. Since the process of love is very important, we must treat each other well during the process of love. For you, eternal life, holding hands and growing old together are still far away. You need a love, the kind without hesitation. Only after experiencing this sweet and painful love can you understand. Only by what kind of love do you want can you know more clearly what kind of woman you want to spend this life with. When you look back on the past, you will not regret wasting your youth. If there is no process, you won’t know what to recall after a breakup, or you won’t be able to find anything worth remembering, which would be even more sad. The outcome doesn’t matter, as long as two people are happy together.

4. Letting go is also love, and breaking up is also a part of love.

When loving you has become your burden, when falling in love is already a pain, then choose to let go. Again, when it comes to love, only if you have the mentality of “can afford to take it and let it go” can you calmly accept the beginning and end of love. Learn to give up, turn around and leave before crying, leaving behind a simple silhouette; learn to give up, bury yesterday in the bottom of your heart, leaving the best memories; give up on you, because I love you. Because I love you, I don’t want to see you unhappy; because I love you, I don’t want to see your forced smile; because I love you, I am willing to let you go. When love is a thing of the past, why bother to pursue it? Because I love you, I won’t hold back my tears, so I let you go. If others are unwilling to accept your love, you should change your goal to give your love.

As many circumstances as they have arisen and fallen, so many times have we passed each other and looked back;

There are as many loves and hates as there are sorrows and separations;

There are so many memories of the past that we suddenly look back on.

We are all passers-by on the ferry of life. It’s not that we don’t know how to cherish it, it’s just that love cannot stand the wait. If you like this article, please remember to follow me.