what do girls care about most in a relationship? But here are 3 points
Today, a friend complained to me that he made his girlfriend angry again and didn’t know what he had done wrong? He asked me, what do girls care about most in a relationship? He said he really loved her and didn’t want to lose her.
So, what do girls care about most in a relationship? But here are 3 points.
1. Attitude
Girls care about your attitude towards her because they are very sensitive. In fact, they don’t want much. If you are more attentive and have a better attitude, you can avoid a lot of misunderstandings and troubles. You must also do what you promised. If you always do it perfunctory or break your promise, the other party will be more and more disappointed, and then they will be disappointed in you and finally give up.
My best friend told me that one night in the middle of the night, she was in a particularly low mood and wanted to be comforted by her boyfriend.
Then, she called him and said she’d love to hear what he had to say.
On the other end of the phone, he was dealing with her impatiently. His perfunctory attitude made her very disappointed.
From then on, when she was sad and helpless, she never called him again.
I won’t even call him when I’m happy.
She said she didn’t want to be a bitch again.
I found that the girls around me all have a kind of cat nature: when a kitten acts coquettishly or does something wrong, it needs the comfort and guidance of its owner. If the owner hits it at this time, it will remember it severely and will not do it again.
Especially girls who are in love have cat-like self-esteem. Her self-esteem is actually to make you care about her.
She will remember that you doted on her in some small things or details, or you were indifferent to her.
Even if you do something wrong in the future, she will remember your love for her and will not care about you. But if she thinks of your former indifference, she will be displeased.
Such a moment, or moment, will remain in her heart forever.
Because love has made her heart soft and sensitive.
I read a particularly classic saying: Sometimes a woman needs a man, just like a plane escaper needs a parachute. If he is not here at this moment, then he does not have to be here in the future. Really, that’s it.
Don’t always think that girls like to toss and make trouble unreasonably. She only tosses you because she cares about you. Why don’t you think about why she doesn’t do this to others?
If one day, she no longer acts coquettishly towards you, is no longer willful to you, no longer pesters you for this or that, and is no longer happy or sad because of anything about you. Then, you will lose her forever.
There is nothing more sad than a heart that never dies, and nothing more fortunate than a complete death.
2. Frankness
Everyone knows that once defenses and speculations arise between people, they will never have pure feelings for each other, whether it is love or friendship.
Therefore, don’t cheat. If you have something to say, you can raise an opinion. If you make a mistake, you can correct it. Don’t lie to her or hide it from her.
You must know that the estrangement and alienation in relationships may be caused by conflicts of interest in money, rights and other aspects.
However, in the final analysis, it is still because of some small things and mutual distrust.
If you truly love someone, then you can accept and tolerate her strengths and weaknesses. After all, no one is perfect, and those shortcomings can be completely forgiven as long as they are not serious enough to affect others and society. What cannot be forgiven is precisely the speculation, reservation and lack of honesty towards the people around her.
Girls can accept your weakness and poverty, but they cannot accept mutual defensiveness and suspicion. Once there is suspicion, the heart will be full of uncertainty and fear, fearing that if one is not careful, one will be in danger.
When a girl puts down her arms and falls in love with you, she is completely vulnerable. Because she believes in you, she completely gives herself to you. As long as there is a little impurity in your love, then she will feel that she is in a very dangerous situation.
Therefore, you must be honest with her and don’t hide anything from her, because you are not an outsider, you are her lifelong spiritual home. In this home, if she cannot relax completely and breathe freely, She still had to work hard to guess and prepare, so she would rather give up than take the risk.
From now on, I will never look back on the past, and I won’t make do with the rest of my life; from now on, mountains and rivers will never meet, and I won’t hear about your strengths and weaknesses.
3. Preference
In love, girls will become suspicious, possessive, selfish, and cannot tolerate a grain of sand in their eyes.
In love, girls really have no choice but to tolerate their boyfriends and be nice to other girls.
The love a girl wants is special treatment from you, that is, she wants to be your “only”, not “one of them”. If there is no difference in the treatment of friends and girlfriends, then why should she be your girlfriend? Therefore, you must understand these principles and don’t let your beloved girl feel chilled.
If you love her, take the initiative to keep a distance from other girls, be sensible, and don’t praise other girls in front of her, whether this one is good or that one is good; don’t challenge her bottom line again and again, and don’t take her jealousy to heart superior.
In love, what girls hope to get is your unique love, not mass production, but limited edition, only one copy. They need this special preference to prove that they are different from others in your heart. No girl will really like the “central air-conditioning” type of you.
what is love? In fact, to put it bluntly, love means special treatment. Because you love her, you will always want to give her the best and give her something different from others. This kind of special treatment does not need to be done deliberately, but is driven by “love” and comes instinctively.
Love is not in words, but in actions. If you say you love her, you have to tell her with practical actions that you love her and that you only care about her.
After all, what can give people a sense of security is never love, but preference. Because the world is too harsh and fair, she wanted to be that exception.
To sum up, in love, attentive attitude, frankness and preference are what girls care about most.
Only love that is responded to can be called love. What girls care about is also what boys care about. In love, you have to give to each other in order to be together for a long time.
For the rest of your life, I hope you will meet a man who has a broad mind, can tolerate your willfulness, is dedicated and honest to you, can make you completely trust him, and let you give your full devotion, and then hold your hand and be with you. We grow old together.