In fact, this is the only woman that men always keep in mind.

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Love has three levels.

First, passion.

It’s like a man is young and vigorous, a woman is in love, or a piece of firewood encounters a fierce fire and burns up.

Second, dependence.

For example, if two people are closely dependent on each other and have endless things to say and talk about, when something happens, they will first think of asking each other for help;

Third, soul attachment.

This kind of love is a high level of emotion. When two people are together, even if they are in silent company, they feel at ease; no matter how good someone appears, the other person cannot be replaced.

But it is a pity that for most couples, it is not easy to reach the second step; if they can reach the third step, it is probably a good match destined by God.

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In life, many marriage combinations mostly start with passion, go through various trivial trials, and enter the stage of dependence.

However, the years of tinkering may not really make two people become the ultimate “soul combination”. On the contrary, it may make a couple become more and more tired of each other and can no longer tolerate each other.

Therefore, true love is often a rational choice.

How do these relate to the topic we are going to talk about: “The woman a man can’t let go of”?

Of course there is.

We can get the answer by analyzing these three realms.

Analysis from the perspective of passion: A woman is cool and sassy, she will be unforgettable for him, but she will not be deeply loved.

Saw a movie.

There is a man and woman, the man is busy at work and often works overtime.

On this day, the man fainted on the road due to hypoglycemia after working overtime. The woman happened to pass by and “saved his life.”

The entanglement between the two people began.

The man originally thought that if a woman smiled gently at her, she would be an angel who could “love him like a little bird”, but he didn’t expect that behind the woman’s meekness, she actually loved to play and had an ambiguous “childhood sweetheart”.

He chased her crazily, but after the two fell in love briefly, the woman broke up.

Just because the woman clearly discovered that it was not only difficult for their personalities to get along, but also for their lives. She also discovered in this love that the person she really loved was her “childhood sweetheart.”

So at the end of the film, the woman lets go freely and the man begins a lifelong attachment.

The warmth and warmth of life come from the feelings in life.

When most people first fall in love, they seldom consider the troubles of reality or the great responsibility of human reproduction, but are only based on the attraction of appearance, the “appreciation” of personality, or the “admiration” of ability.

Therefore, love at this time is mostly about passion, and everything else is supplementary.

If a man is deeply in love with a woman at this time, but the woman is very cool and sassy, and doesn’t care much about his deep and intense confession, or even, after dating her, he finds that he is not the lover he is looking for. , and simply left him, then most likely, the man will never forget this woman.

After all, there is an old saying: What you can’t get is always the best.

However, people have to grow up, and the people they loved in the past will let him go through his experiences, make him just sigh and no longer be persistent, and even gradually forget them.

Just because, in love, there is no blessing of time, there is no such thing as “can’t let go”.

From the perspective of “dependence” and “soul attachment”: the only thing a man always keeps in his heart is his pillow person

I watched a period drama.

A man and a woman are united by love.

The man is tall and handsome, and the woman is short but average-looking.

Although they were a perfect match, when the man was studying, he fell in love with a beautiful girl in his class and had an affair.

When he got married, he felt regretful, but he finally came to terms with it.

In their limited lives, the two people have relied on each other for most of their lives. When the woman nags, he will listen with a smile; when the man is forgetful, she will remind him from time to time.

When life was difficult, they supported each other; after life became rich, they remained as loving as ever.

In fact, the first person a man falls in love with at first sight is just the bud of love.

Men’s love is mostly rational.

However, even if he just wants you to be a good match at first, even if he just wants women to be virtuous and sensible from the beginning… When you are together, you can go through the years and endure the bitterness and sweetness of life together, and you will rely on each other and rely on each other. Attachment, then you are the woman he has always cared about in his life.

Because only after a person has gone through thousands of sailings, experienced fame and wealth, can he fall in love with someone completely not because of money or loneliness.

Any make-do emotions and reluctant likes are nothing but the unfolding of passion.

And love can only be called intimacy when it transcends material desires.

Therefore, those women who keep men in their hearts throughout their lives are never the short-lived “love at first sight”; nor are they the joy of “picking up ready-made” women outside marriage.

Rather, he and the person beside him can fill every detail of life with “dependence on each other” and polish the stubborn stone of “marriage” into a bright “diamond”.

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I still remember that there was a message saying:

One time when he was on a business trip, the man talked to her on voice. She said that she was a little scared at home, but her husband never hung up, saying that he would wait until she fell asleep.

That night, he kept listening to her sleeping breathing while revising the copy on the computer. She woke up once in the middle of the night and heard him typing on the keyboard on the other side of the phone.

Many women worry that after marriage, a man will still be attached to the woman he once loved.

In fact, you don’t need to think too much about these “meaningless things” at all.

Because, for a man, wherever he gives, his love is there; if he completes every big and small event in his life with you, the person beside him, it means that in his heart, only you.

So, cherish the moment.

You know, true love is when you make a pot of hot soup. When night comes, after get off work, he wants to go home quickly and drink the soup you made.

This is also the best response you can give each other.