Mia and her husband had been married for three years. At first, Mia’s mother-in-law was not satisfied with her because Mia came from a rural area. Mia thought that if she worked hard, her mother-in-law would eventually accept her, but she was wrong.
During her pregnancy, Mia’s mother-in-law asked her to do all sorts of household chores, including heavy lifting. Mia still chose to obey, hoping to gain her mother-in-law’s recognition.
One day, while doing chores, Mia accidentally fell and lost her baby. After losing her child, Mia was devastated and cried to her husband, but he didn’t say a word and even blamed her.
In real life, we all encounter family conflicts. For a woman, finding a responsible man is a blessing. If not, it will only lead to endless suffering.
If a man truly loves you, he won’t be silent.
Love is in the Details
As Voltaire once said, “It’s not the distant mountains that exhaust us, but the grain of sand in our shoes.”
In reality, it’s often the small things in life that make us exhausted. The same goes for emotions. Love is in the details, and if someone doesn’t care about the details, their love is meaningless.
If someone only thinks about themselves in a relationship, that love is also meaningless.
Love is Accompaniment
On the road of love, we will encounter various people and things.
For love, each of us has different understandings, but I think that the person who accompanies you is the one who truly loves you. Happiness often lies in being with someone who is worthy.
When someone is willing to unconditionally accompany you, it proves that they recognize and accept you. As Zhu Shenghao once said, “When I wake up, I feel deeply in love with you.”
Only when someone truly cares about you will they think that being with you is a happy thing.
Love is Tolerance
For love, each of us has different understandings, but I think that we should always believe in love.
Perhaps you were hurt in a previous relationship, and you’re cautious about love. But I hope you never forget the person who is willing to accompany you.
In love, only the person who truly accompanies you is the one who loves you.
As Shen Congwen once said, “Our love will last a lifetime, and a lifetime is still too short.”
If someone truly puts you in their heart, their love for you will far exceed reality. If they hope to be with you for a long time, their care for you is also essential.
Therefore, accompaniment is the longest confession, and the person who is willing to accompany you is the most selfless.
Love is Tolerance
For love, each person has different understandings, but what kind of love can last longer? I think that when two people are together, it’s not about trying to change each other, but about accepting each other. That’s love.
If you only try to change the other person, that’s not life, it’s war.
Two people having conflicts and disagreements is a normal thing.
However, when we encounter problems, we should learn to solve them. If we only blame each other and think only of ourselves, that love will not last.
Love is something that can be encountered but not sought. Good love is hard to come by, so having someone who loves you and accompanies you is already a kind of happiness.
If you don’t understand this, you won’t feel happy in love. If you don’t understand this in love, how can the two of you hold hands for the rest of your life?
Therefore, tolerance is crucial in love, because each person is different, and two people will never be completely the same. They will have different thoughts and biases, so tolerance is especially important.
Learning to tolerate makes love last longer. In the world of emotions, anything can become extremely simple if you’re willing.
If someone truly loves you, they won’t be silent, because true love is in action. The person who loves you won’t let you suffer, and if someone’s love is only in words, it won’t last.