Tagore has a famous saying:
Love is the storm of the soul, it can shake the strongest wall.
However, everyone in love is blind. Sometimes, when love comes, because the heart is separated from the belly but cannot be read, it is easy to give people a feeling of not being in love, and they have to miss it abruptly. .
You know, maybe a man will love you, but he is not good at expressing his feelings with “I love you”.
Therefore, in love, we must be bright and smart people to understand the subtext of a man falling in love with you.
If a man falls in love with you, he will hint like this.
1. Show concern for you in the details of life
If a man loves you, his concern for you is the subtext of love. In the process of getting along with you, he should pay close attention to your every move and actively participate in your life. Love is not mentioned everywhere, but love is everywhere.
Just like hanging out with friends in the spring, it is obvious that there is something wrong with my best friend and one of the boys.
The two claimed to be just ordinary friends, and their best friend also repeatedly failed to figure out the boy’s intentions.
But during the play, I discovered that the boys had been secretly paying attention to their best friends. They always handed the grilled meat skewers to their best friends immediately. During the performance, their eyes would unconsciously drift to where their best friends were.
What’s even more interesting is that my best friend wanted to go to the toilet, but couldn’t find where the toilet was for a while. The boy was seriously worried and helped his best friend find the toilet, which made everyone laugh.
It’s just a matter of confessing that I like her, and my thoughts have been clearly shown.
If a man cares about you, he will think about what he can do for you and express his sincerity with the most ordinary practical actions. As long as he can treat you well, he will be willing to pay.
2. When I am with you, I am willing to give.
Being willing to give is the most direct manifestation of a man falling in love with someone.
Love means hoping that the other person will live a better life than oneself, and more importantly, hoping that the source of good things is related to oneself.
It’s like we were getting along in a hazy way before the relationship with my husband was established. He was very busy at work, but he would take the initiative to find me no matter how late it was after get off work. Even if it was just a simple meeting and chat downstairs, he would feel particularly happy.
The most memorable time for me was when we went to an office building to do business. Since it was our first time there, we didn’t realize that the door would close automatically. When the door closed, I happened to walk in and saw that I was about to be squeezed. He reached out and pushed me away.
Really, a man’s love cannot be hidden. If it is love, he will give it and he will not care.
Whether it is giving time, money or the meticulousness and consideration in life, I will not hesitate to devote my efforts to you at any point in time when you need it.
3. When I am with you, I will respect your feelings.
Love is not possession, nor bottomless asking, but standing on your side, caring about your emotions, and being willing to take the initiative to protect you.
A man who loves you not only understands your life needs, but also cares about your psychological needs. From the standpoint of respecting you, I give you better love and companionship. This is sincere and cherished.
someone said:
Love is like a blooming flower, it needs the nourishment of sunshine and rain to thrive.
When a man truly loves you, he will be your sunshine and rain, nourishing your growth, and at the same time giving you enough trust and respect, allowing you enough space to pursue your dreams and happiness.
When you find a man expressing his feelings through actions, don’t miss these opportunities. Try to understand his thoughts and respond.