Love is quite subtle. When men and women are together, sometimes it’s hard to tell the difference between friendship and love.
Sometimes, before a man is with a woman, he often feels that she has some pet phrases when chatting with him. However, these pet phrases from women often leave men puzzled.
In the book “My Husband is Unreliable,” there is a saying: “Women find it hard to say ‘I love you’ because they usually think it over carefully, so they are more rational. I think when a man says ‘I love you,’ he wants to get the woman’s body, while when a woman says ‘I love you,’ it’s because she has already devoted her body.”
Women are quite cautious about relationships. Falling in love is not easy. At the same time, when a woman says something to a man, she is not as casual as men.
In fact, women are often more thoughtful than men. When a woman says something, she has usually thought it over about what to say to someone.
Sometimes, a girl may be a bit shy when facing a guy, so she may not directly express her desire to be flirted with. But as a man, you must be attentive. This way, you won’t miss out on a beautiful relationship and won’t hurt an innocent person.
Girls often say these pet phrases, indicating they are willing to be flirted with by you. Don’t miss out.
You’re Amazing
Tu Lei said: “Men wish their women to be more amazing than any other woman, but they also want to be more amazing than women, becoming the object of women’s admiration.”
So, men have a somewhat hypocritical mentality in life. If a woman likes a man and wants him to show interest in her, she will notice this trait in him. Women will seize on this point.
In life, many women often say when praising men: “You’re amazing.”
And women frequently keep this phrase on their lips, indicating their love for the person and hoping the person will reciprocate.
When a woman frequently says this to you in conversations, a smart man will understand: she admires you. Someone who praises you admires you and hopes you will respond.
As the saying goes, “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.” Even if a man is not amazing, if a woman fancies him, she will find him very impressive. In conversations, women will reveal their admiration for men.
Some women are more reserved in handling relationships. Sometimes, even if they want to flirt with a man, they still hope the man will flirt back.
Therefore, they will praise the man in this way, hoping to spark his desire to talk, so they can continue chatting and hope the man will take the initiative to pursue them.
A woman who praises your amazing qualities in life, if she only praises you occasionally and then stops, it may indicate she only values a specific ability of yours.
But if she praises you once and continues to do so frequently in the future, it means you are highly regarded in her eyes. Simultaneously, she uses this overt way to praise you to let you know she likes you and hopes you will flirt back.
I Like Someone Like You
There was a girl who wanted a guy to introduce her to someone, so she chatted with him every day, always asking about potential dates, hoping the guy could introduce someone to her.
This guy had never been in a relationship and was quite introverted. He never found a suitable match, which made the girl feel a lot of pressure.
In many cases, men ask women, “What kind of person do you like?”
Women always reply, “I like someone like you.”
Then the guy, being introverted, would respond, “There are no two identical leaves in the world. Where can I find someone like me?”
Hearing the guy’s response, the girl felt both anxious and annoyed. Sometimes, some men are just dense like that and end up missing out on a woman.
When a woman asks you to introduce someone to her, and you can’t find a match or the match you find doesn’t meet her standards, yet she insists she wants someone like you, it means she’s flirting with you and hopes you will flirt back.
So, in relationships, if a person frequently tells you, “I like someone like you,” and if you also like that person, then enjoy it secretly! Because the woman really wants to be with you, and if you continue chatting like this, you will definitely be together in the future.
Accompany Me
San Mao said: “Accompanying is the most sincere confession.”
In this world, some people leave and never come back. When you wait for that person, all you get is autumn and winter, but you never get that romantic spring with them.
So sometimes, when a woman really likes a man, she always wants him to accompany her because being with him makes her feel very happy.
Men and women are different. If a man doesn’t like a woman, even so, just being with her makes him feel proud and excited.
But if a woman doesn’t like a man, even saying a few words to him feels awkward and uncomfortable. Unless she is particularly materialistic and chats with the man for money, she won’t talk much with him.
So, when a woman always tells a man, “Accompany me,” it means she has started to like him and hopes he will flirt with her and pursue her.
If a woman tells a man this phrase, it means she is being quite straightforward and sincere. Perhaps she has liked him for a long time, which is why she is so direct.
Be a man, if you also like her, don’t hesitate, grab onto your happiness tightly. In the future, you will have a better time together.
Liu Chenfeng said: “A woman in love heals all ailments, a woman heartbroken suffers from countless illnesses.”
Women are sometimes reserved but also crave love. So, if a woman wants a man to flirt with her, it means she is interested in him. At this point, the man should seize the opportunity, give her warmth and love, and in return, find his own love.