In relationships, many people choose to push away someone because they don’t love them.

If you push such a person, you will just push him away. It is not a big deal. However, at the same time, some people obviously like him very much, but they will still test and push the other person away from him repeatedly.

And the reason why she chose to keep pushing away was because she didn’t really want to separate from the other person and never have any contact with him. She just wanted to confirm that the other person really liked her and would not leave her.

It seems that only when the other person is pushed away by her again and again, but will not go far, and will come back every time, can she be sure that this relationship is reliable, and only then can she dare to love with confidence.

Everyone who keeps pushing the other person away is a very insecure person inside, and they all long to be pampered by someone. But the more you desire, the more you keep driving the other person away, which is not the case. It is very likely that you will not be able to have love at all.

No matter how much you like or want to be with someone, he simply can’t stand the thought of you pushing him away again and again.

If you like it, love it well, and don’t be too pretentious.

I saw a saying that when we are together, a person always tends to feel that the other person doesn’t like him that much, and then acts in various ways to prove his love. But when they are separated, he will always find all kinds of clues to prove his love. Let the other person still love you.

This seems to be a common phenomenon, but it really seems to be putting the cart before the horse, and it really shouldn’t be.

In fact, you know in your heart whether a person loves you or not. As long as you feel his love for you from his attitude and behavior towards you most of the time, then even if he does not take care of you occasionally, You don’t have to deliberately embarrass him.

The world is so big, and you have waited so many years to finally cross the sea of people and meet each other. When meeting each other is not easy, why don’t you cherish it, and why bother to embarrass the other person and yourself at the same time.

If you are too arrogant, too unreasonable, and seek a sense of existence from the other person, it will be difficult to give you real peace of mind in the end. It will only make you go back and forth, sometimes feeling that the other person loves you, sometimes wanting to continue trying, feeling that he is not. .

When you always get along like this, it will only make you feel very tired, and it will also make the other person feel very tired.

Repeatedly pushing away makes the other person really go away

I once came into contact with a girl. She obviously had a boyfriend who loved her very much, but she still often felt very uneasy, and then she would always break up and pretend to drive him away from her.

Fortunately, every time she said this, her boyfriend understood her duplicity and did not really leave. Instead, he would coax her with good tempers until he made her happy, and then he would stay with confidence. Leave her alone.

However, even though her boyfriend coaxed her again and again, she still continued to let him leave again and again.

As the number of times increased, she finally began to believe that the other party was serious about her. But just when she was about to control herself and stop doing this again, and give it one last try, her boyfriend really left, never to be seen again. Don’t want to look back.

There is a saying that if we break up and join together, we will break up in the end. This is indeed the case. No matter how much someone loves you, they simply cannot bear your repeated pushing away. Every time you push away, the other person will be hurt and your relationship will be broken.

In the end, if he gets hurt too much, his heart will slowly die, and he will never want to have anything to do with you again.

Relationships can’t stand the torment, so they must be managed well.

There are always people who think that if a person loves themselves, they must do whatever they want. No matter what they do, the other person will never choose to leave. However, relationships are never one-sided and require two people to work together. Take good care of yourself.

Many relationships are never as strong as imagined and cannot withstand too many storms.

Once your relationship is not strong enough, and you always feel that the other person doesn’t love you enough, you keep asking him to prove it by being humble. Instead of him always wanting to prove it to you, on the contrary, he will just think that forget it, don’t do it. By myself.

Trying to keep someone by your side and pushing them away is not only wrong, but stupid.

What can really make a relationship last long is that you have to give to each other, care for each other, and trust each other.

Then every day, when the other person treats you well, you also always think about the other person, treat him well in every way, and treat him better than anyone else. Let him stay by your side, and you will always be happy. , so that he will naturally not have other thoughts.

Don’t push someone away repeatedly if you really love them and want to be with them.

When you love someone and are with someone, just follow your heart and don’t say things you mean or say things you don’t mean.

Don’t lie to yourself, and don’t lie to the other person. In your relationship, just be honest with yourself.

Too many people clearly want the other person but say they don’t want to, too many people obviously want the other person to stay but let the other person go, too many people obviously want to keep the other person but just say they want the other person to leave, this really won’t make you happy. , will only make happiness far away from you.

And when you know how to face your own feelings honestly and don’t torture the other person indirectly, it will be easier for you to get along with each other, and it will be easier for you to have a good result.

It’s true that once some people are pushed away, they won’t be with you anymore. Only by treating them well will there be a future.