Loyalty is the bridge of love, and a love without loyalty can never reach each other’s hearts.

We often think that if someone betrays in a relationship, it must mean they don’t love anymore. If they still love, how could they allow themselves to be with someone else?

Some betrayals actually have nothing to do with love, but rather reflect a person’s character.

These people can never be satisfied in a relationship, always thinking the best partner is always the next one, and therefore never knowing how to cherish the people around them, missing out on one truly loving person after another.

Love has always been about two people, and if one person betrays, the love is over.

Some say “betrayal happens either zero times or countless times,” and those who become habitual offenders because of betrayal will never love only one person again.

Even though loyalty is a choice and changing one’s mind is an instinct, when facing love, holding onto one’s heart and staying true to one’s responsibilities is also a kind of ability, isn’t it?

Why do some people, clearly still in love, choose to betray?

When meeting someone and developing feelings, a connection is formed. The process of developing feelings is something we can’t control, and we call it fate.

They say fate cannot be resisted. Instead of restraining our feelings, it’s better to love boldly.

The process of love has several stages: the honeymoon phase, the passionate phase, and the stable phase.

In the first two stages, we are satisfied with the feelings and are willing to invest a lot of effort and resources to maintain the relationship.

Once the passionate phase is over and the relationship becomes stable, we have a lot of free time to pay attention to other people.

When the novelty of the partner wears off and we find other attractive people, it’s easy to be drawn to them.

If, at this point, we are not satisfied with our current emotional state and do not know how to cherish the people around us, it’s easy to choose betrayal when feeling a new connection.

But at the moment of choosing betrayal, they don’t realize that everything is a cycle of cause and effect, and the emotional debt they owe will one day be paid.

Betraying someone is not because of lack of love, but because of one’s nature.

Staying loyal to one’s partner is not just a choice, but also a responsibility, and it’s the best way to demonstrate one’s character.

Ask yourself, how can someone who betrays their partner convince others that they have good morals?

People like this will find it hard to gain others’ trust in friendships or work, and will always be viewed with suspicion.

When betraying their emotions, they might initially feel in control and have the right to choose, manipulating others. But when the truth comes out, they will realize that they are the most passive ones, having to follow others’ decisions.

The most admirable thing in love is to love only one person for a lifetime.

Just like the lyrics of a song: “The colors of the past have slowed down, and so have the horse carriages and letters. A lifetime is enough to love only one person.”

It sounds beautiful and is something to yearn for in love, no matter how long life is, as long as you have someone who truly loves you, it’s enough.

As for those who like to betray in love, no matter how many people they have loved, they will ultimately feel lonely and empty.

Love is an ability, and being able to protect this love well is a real skill.

When two people have been together for a long time, they will inevitably feel ordinary. Those who can continue to enjoy a peaceful life are the ones who truly understand love.

It’s like women say: “I can take off my high heels for you, and I can put them back on for you.”

Men also say: “Because of loving you, I have become childish. If I leave you, I can mature quickly.”

So, when someone betrays in a relationship, don’t look for the other person’s reasons, and don’t claim to have found true love, because betrayal is betrayal, and it has nothing to do with love.

It’s just human nature. Even if they end up with true love, they will betray again.

All this is not because of anything else, it’s just because you can never be satisfied in love.

The sea of suffering has no bounds, but turning back is the shore. Faced with emotions, understanding this truth in time and holding onto your heart is the only way to avoid disaster.

If you insist on moving forward and refuse to listen to advice, in the end, you will only regret your actions for a lifetime.

Just like the lyrics of a song: “Later on, finally in tears, I understood that once some people are missed, they are gone forever.”

Don’t wait until the tears have run dry to understand the true meaning of love; don’t wait until the person you truly love leaves to regret your missed opportunities.

Because in love, we can tolerate each other’s flaws, but we cannot accept betrayal.