Vincent van Gogh once said, “Where the flower of love blooms, life flourishes.”

It’s normal for couples to argue, but how a man behaves towards you after an argument often indicates the depth of his love for you. Why do some couples drift apart after arguments while others grow closer?

It all comes down to how problems are handled. Women’s thoughts may be hard to decipher, but ultimately, they just want to feel loved.

So, how can you tell if a man truly loves you? It’s simple. When a man shows signs of fearing losing you after an argument.

Mark and Emily have been dating for three years. Their relationship had its ups and downs. They were college classmates and became closer after interning at the same company post-graduation.

Initially uninterested in Mark’s advances, Emily’s heart gradually melted as they spent more time together. They moved in after officially becoming a couple, initially inseparable. However, conflicts arose in their third year together due to various life issues.

Breakup threats were frequent, with a three-month silent treatment being the longest. Emily, being stubborn, rarely admitted fault first. She thought their relationship had hit a dead end until Mark’s willingness to reconcile softened her heart once more.

Reflecting on their long relationship, Emily realizes Mark has always been the one to apologize first. She now understands the value of their bond.

Many couples face conflicts due to various issues, but disagreements are inevitable. A man’s attitude towards you post-argument reflects his love for you. If a man acts in certain ways towards you after a disagreement, it shows he fears losing you.

Willingness to Admit Mistakes

Ruxi once said, “In love, joy and sorrow are always in contention.”

Real love isn’t about winning or losing; it’s about understanding. When a man truly loves you, he will willingly admit his mistakes to you.

Despite caring about their image in public, men are willing to humble themselves in front of the women they love. Admitting mistakes isn’t a weakness; it’s a way for a man to express his love for you.

Someone who loves you fears not giving you enough, while someone who doesn’t love you fears you’ll demand too much. Men who admit their mistakes willingly are the ones who love you the most because they fear losing you.

Communication and Resolution

Shakespeare once said, “The course of true love never did run smooth.”

Often, the root cause of unresolved conflicts between couples is a lack of communication and problem-solving skills. Resolving conflicts calmly and through communication is crucial for a happy relationship. Learning to communicate bridges gaps between partners.

Each person is unique, and without mutual understanding, relationships are bound to suffer. Good relationships require mutual effort, not just one person’s willingness. Communication is the key to happiness, as it resolves conflicts.

If blame and lack of understanding persist, the relationship will inevitably deteriorate.

Showing Care

In relationships, emotional neglect is the most dreadful. I remember during my past relationship, we both had short tempers. Small conflicts in our lives often led to arguments and silent treatments, with the longest one lasting two months.

Reflecting on those times, I realized that loving someone shouldn’t require excessive humility. A person who truly loves you will continue to do so regardless of your actions. If someone in a relationship can’t even offer basic respect, the relationship becomes meaningless.

For a man, showing care is fundamental in love. If a man can’t provide even the most basic love in a relationship, how can it last? Arguments and conflicts are inevitable, but a man’s care towards you determines how much he values you. A man who loves you will always pay attention to you, while one who doesn’t will only prioritize his own interests. So, if a man fails to provide you with a sense of security, he doesn’t truly love you.