Augustine once said, “As long as love is right, faith and hope are undoubtedly right too.”
When it comes to love, nine out of ten times, it ends sadly.
Not every love story has a perfect ending. Every woman desires happiness in love. Women who fall in love often lose their rationality. Many women sacrifice themselves for their partners, but not all sacrifices are reciprocated.
In a relationship, if a man doesn’t value you, make sure he loses these things, remember it well.
Losing Wealth
Recently, a friend sent me a letter. Here is an excerpt:
I’ve been married to my husband for 15 years. When I married him, he was a poor guy. Against my parents’ wishes, we secretly got married because of love. I chose to struggle with him wholeheartedly. We worked hard for a better life, but in the end, our marriage ended in failure.
Because of another woman, he chose to abandon me. I didn’t cling to him. I signed the divorce agreement directly. After the divorce, I fought for custody of our child. Due to his fault, my request for him to leave with nothing was granted.
After the divorce, I lived alone with our child. Though life was tough, I felt liberated. If a man doesn’t cherish you, learn to cut your losses.
Losing Your Care and Affection
Shelley once said, “The greatest secret in morality is love.”
When a man doesn’t appreciate you, there’s no need to force it in love. As a wife, we should care for and understand our husbands, but not all men deserve our efforts. Love is a mutual choice. If only one person is willing, the relationship will deteriorate.
Save your care and affection for those who deserve it. If a man doesn’t respect you enough, don’t degrade yourself in love. Learn to love yourself, and others will love you more.
Losing Your Companionship and Encouragement
Many women lose their rationality in love. We all have our choices in love. We might change for someone, but we shouldn’t lose ourselves. Companionship is the most enduring confession of love. Choosing a man means choosing a way of life.
When two people are together, they should work towards common goals. Mutual companionship and encouragement are crucial. Love isn’t wrong, but it should have limits. If love lacks pureness, it’s meaningless.
In love, companionship and encouragement are vital. Many women fear not the suffering but enduring suffering while feeling wronged. If love doesn’t involve mutual love and care, it’s pointless for us.
When a man fails to appreciate you, smart women know when to cut their losses instead of wasting time on him.
Recently, during a dinner with a friend, we discussed love stories. One phrase she said struck me deeply, “If someone’s presence doesn’t improve your life, then their existence is meaningless to you.”
Thinking about it now, she was right. When a man in a relationship fails to appreciate it, the best choice for a woman is to leave. The right person will bring excitement to your life, while the wrong one will only waste your time.
Goncharov once said, “Love equals life, and life is a responsibility. Therefore, love is a responsibility.”
Love is something we all yearn for, but it’s only meaningful with the right person. Love requires mutual effort. Without it, love won’t last.
In this world, there aren’t many who genuinely wish for your well-being. Sweet words from men bring temporary joy but not lasting happiness. Life and love are fair to us all. Good love fosters growth for both, while bad love only wastes your time.
Reality is cruel. If a man takes your efforts for granted, the relationship is destined for unhappiness.
A man who doesn’t value you lacks responsibility because he only thinks of himself. Even in marriage, such a man won’t bring happiness.
In real life, when a woman faces love, she should be rational. Only then can you find more happiness. Ma Yili once said in a relationship, “I can spoil you, but I can also replace you.”
This is a woman’s confidence in dealing with relationships. If a man fails to appreciate you, leaving is the best choice for a woman.