Saying “I love you” is easy, but living up to it is hard.
In the beginning of a relationship, sweet words flow easily, but as time goes on, few can truly continue to love you.
In love, a man who truly loves you will always prioritize you and protect you.
Love is a verb that requires actions. Real, practical efforts bring true peace of mind, unlike empty promises.
So, how can you tell if a man truly loves you in reality? The answer is simple: a man who wants to keep loving you will treat you in ways most people won’t experience.
Full Respect
Respect is crucial in any relationship. There are different kinds of affection—some driven by love, others by desire.
A man who genuinely loves you will respect your thoughts, everything about you, give you enough time and space, never make you feel wronged, and never force you to do things you don’t want to do.
When I first started dating my boyfriend, I set many rules for him—like not coming home too late, not being ambiguous with other girls, and always answering my calls.
I didn’t set these rules to restrict his freedom, but to feel secure.
Initially, he couldn’t meet these expectations, but later on, he did. This made me believe that marrying him was the right choice.
Even after three years of marriage, he still maintains these habits. Once, during a chat on the couch, I asked if my demands were too strict for him. He always replied, “No, it shows that you care about me.”
Although I didn’t say it out loud, I was happy inside. Meeting him is the greatest happiness of my life.
There’s a saying: “When a man truly loves you, he is always available, understands everything, and is capable of anything.” Deep down, we all know what kind of man truly loves us. A man who loves you knows how to give you full respect, never puts you in a difficult position, and never embarrasses you.
Including You in Future Plans
A man who truly loves you will include you in his future plans, providing you with a sense of security. If a man is willing to introduce you to his family and friends, it means he values you and acknowledges you.
Men can be selfish at times. They won’t waste time on a woman they don’t like, let alone include them in their future plans.
Love can be unpredictable. They say love brings more sorrow than joy. There are no fairy tales in love. True love is encountered, not sought after. When you meet someone you truly like, a man will willingly make efforts.
In front of the woman he likes, a man will cherish her unconditionally.
If a man includes you in his future plans, it means he wants to continue developing the relationship with you.
Unconditional Accommodation
Women are often seen as complicated creatures, but in the eyes of a man who truly loves you, all your flaws become endearing. Those who truly love you are afraid of not giving you enough, whereas those who don’t love you will find various reasons to nitpick.
A good relationship requires mutual understanding. Women become more adorable when pampered. A man who truly loves you will be willing to accommodate you unconditionally. In a relationship, all a woman truly desires is a man’s lifelong accommodation and preference. Only when you meet someone who truly understands you can you feel true happiness.
Accommodation is the best gift for a woman. It’s not that women should settle, but after spending a long time with a woman, many men lose the patience and responsibility they once had. Relationships should deepen over time, not fade away once the novelty wears off. A man who truly loves you will never let you suffer, but will always protect you.
I hope all girls can meet a man who is willing to love you like the beginning, growing old together hand in hand. If you meet such a person, cherish it and don’t let each other down.