In real life, marriage is significant to each of us. Those who know how to nurture a marriage can achieve more happiness.

But a fulfilling marriage requires mutual efforts. When a man firmly requests a divorce, it’s not because he is tired of it, but because of these three intentions.

Having a Backup Plan

It’s said that women are materialistic, but in reality, men can be practical too. They say, “The grass is always greener on the other side.” This saying has its truth. Most men seek ambiguous relationships with other women mainly for the thrill of something new.

When a man has a backup plan, his care for you diminishes. Love doesn’t vanish; it merely shifts. When a man transfers his love to someone else, it shows he doesn’t truly love you.

With a backup plan, a man’s love for you decreases due to numerous temptations. If a man can’t control himself, he may abandon his family for the excitement of the outside world. Few men genuinely prioritize family. The world is full of allure, making it tempting for a man. Love cannot be shared between two people. When he has someone else in his heart, his devotion to the family naturally diminishes.

Lack of Family Warmth

While men often appear strong, they also have moments of weariness. Many women think men stop loving them after marriage, but it’s because men carry many responsibilities and may feel overwhelmed. In those times, women should offer more understanding and respect.

Family warmth is crucial for a man. When tired, men yearn for care and understanding. If a man doesn’t feel warmth at home, he will resist the family environment. Why do some men avoid coming home after work? It’s because the family doesn’t provide the warmth they need. If a cozy home can relieve a man’s fatigue, he will always think of returning home when weary.

I heard a friend mention a similar situation while dining with friends. In the third year of her marriage, crises emerged due to trivial issues leading to frequent quarrels. My friend had a fiery temper, while her husband was mild. Their arguments led to a cold war.

She noticed her husband started going out with friends instead of coming straight home after work. This behavior worried her since she knew it was unusual for him.

She decided to communicate openly and realized her approach made it hard for him to comply. Therefore, he avoided coming home after work.

She corrected her mistakes, and they reconciled. Conflicts are inevitable in marriage, but we must learn to resolve them instead of resorting to silent treatment, which only breeds more issues.

Pursuit of Novelty

Love has an expiration date. After the novelty fades, so does love. When facing love, both partners must strive to create passion and romance together.

The novelty is simply experiencing new things with an old partner. Couples who split due to boredom aren’t devoid of love but lack the understanding of nurturing it.

As time passes, maintaining romance becomes crucial for a lasting relationship. When you bring surprises, your partner cares more. A good soul is rare compared to a pretty face.

Ultimately, the fundamental purpose of being together is to seek joy. If this isn’t achieved, love becomes hard to sustain.

A strong relationship requires mutual efforts. When a man chooses divorce, he’s already found his way out.

In conflicts, couples should learn to resolve issues instead of resorting to silent treatment, which erodes the relationship.

Women should create novelty and romance in relationships, understand men’s emotions, as a man who hesitates to leave relies heavily on you.

In relationships, mutual respect and understanding are key to sweet love.

Conflicts are inevitable in life, but cherishing each other is the path to harmony.

Marriage is a lifelong commitment. Let’s tread carefully.