Recently, data showed that the number of divorces among couples has been increasing in recent years.

In today’s society, fewer people are getting married. Many people wait until they are almost 30 to tie the knot, but some end up divorcing after only a few years.

Marriage has its reasons. Many may want a family, a safe haven.

As the divorce rate climbs each year, there are numerous contributing factors. It is precisely these reasons that have led to more and more people getting divorced nowadays.

The five major factors contributing to the rising divorce rate, most couples fail at the first one, a wake-up call for women.

Falling to Temptation

You’ve probably heard the story of Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden. Seeing the ripe apple on the branch, they couldn’t resist and ate the forbidden fruit.

Although a myth, this story sheds light on a lot of issues. It tells us that humans are inherently weak to temptation.

While it’s natural to be tempted, many have learned to restrain themselves over the years. Even when tempted, they still have a sense of responsibility.

However, some not only succumb to temptation but also lack responsibility, sometimes doing as they please.

In reality, after marriage, both partners should have a sense of responsibility. No matter who catches your interest, your spouse should come first.

Unfortunately, many couples don’t see it this way. Hence, many divorces happen because of betrayal, either by one party or both.

Take, for example, the well-known couple Ma Yili and Wen Zhang, once admired by many. However, due to Wen Zhang’s betrayal, the couple ended in divorce.

Being unfaithful in a marriage deals a fatal blow. So, whether you’re a man or a woman, once married, you must remember you have a family. Being with someone else not only harms yourself but also your spouse and the third party.

While life brings many challenges and conflicts in marriage can be resolved, betrayal is often irreparable.

Most people often fail at this.

Social Pressure

The increasing divorce rate is partly due to the mounting societal pressures.

Imagine this: why are people delaying marriage or not getting married at all? One reason is the immense societal pressure. After marriage, it’s not just about two people anymore; it’s about three or even more living together.

With children, life’s pressures grow, and you face numerous tests. You need to provide for your children, ensure their education, ensuring they have a good start in life.

Hence, many young individuals, faced with these realities, decide against marriage.

Moreover, today’s youth are more liberal. They cohabit before marriage, fulfilling certain needs, making marriage less of a priority.

When couples divorce, societal pressures play a role. The pressure is intense, and with society becoming more open, even after a divorce, one can easily form new families. People get accustomed to divorcing and remarrying.

Lack of Love

Another reason for the rising divorce rate is the increasing restlessness in society. Over time, the initial spark in a relationship fades, conversations dwindle, and love diminishes.

When love fades, one starts finding fault in everything the other does, losing interest in shared activities.

In loveless relationships, some choose to stay together out of responsibility. They have parents above and children below. Yet, some opt for divorce.

Emotions are unreliable, and some women resort to deceiving men for money. They believe that only when a man loves them, they can turn that love into cash.

Social Influence

Another reason for the rising divorce rate is the influence of society.

Media, especially movies and TV shows, portray divorce as a common occurrence. Many admire celebrities who divorce, seeing them as carefree. Instead of resolving issues, some opt for divorce to lead a carefree life.

I remember watching a TV drama with my young nephew where a couple got divorced.

Upon seeing that scene, my nephew mentioned that if he faced any unhappiness in the future, he too would consider divorce, believing personal happiness is paramount.

Hence, society ingrains in us from a young age that divorcing is an option. So, when faced with marital problems, the first thought is often divorce.

Influence of Family

Sometimes, we still love our partners, and we can handle the pressures of life. Yet, the people around us have a significant impact on us.

It’s a fact that some women and men divorce not because of a lack of love or financial struggles but because of interference from the man’s parents, causing the woman distress.

Some parents have difficult personalities. It’s not just about two individuals living together but two families forming a union.

Family influence is crucial. If a couple faces minor issues, understanding family members can help resolve the problem.

However, if family members are biased and attack one party while favoring their own, even trivial matters can escalate, leading to conflicts.

Hence, the influence of family members is significant. When choosing a partner, look not only at their character but also at their parents.

With the divorce rate on the rise, there are problems within us, those around us, and the societal influences. Marriage is no joke, so before tying the knot, think it through. After marriage, focus on making it work.

Living in this society is tough for everyone. Life after divorce isn’t easy either because emotions run deep.