In life, we find that it’s not only the very beautiful girls that guys like. Some girls may have an ordinary appearance but are still pursued by many guys. What exactly is it that attracts the opposite sex to them? Today, let’s talk about what kind of girls attract men, starting with the most simple and obvious three points:

Appearance matters.

It’s well known that men are visual creatures. Let’s not pretend that this is shallow. In fact, girls are the same. No one likes someone who looks sloppy or even dirty, right? Don’t say you’re not pretty enough. With today’s makeup techniques, as long as there are no innate defects, with proper makeup, attention to dressing taste, and overall image building, anyone can be considered beautiful. Even if you’re not really pretty, at least you should look comfortable and pleasant, clean and fresh.

Have expressive eyes and a sweet smile.

Eyes should be captivating, and smiles should be sweet. They say the devil is in the details, and often very small details determine the outcome. For example, a casual look or smile. If you haven’t experienced it, you might find it hard to believe how attractive eye contact and a smile are to men. Many men, when describing how they fell for a woman, will say it was because of a look that made them feel electrified and a smile that seemed to cast a spell on them. Men can be deceived by this feeling, even if they know you’re not the perfect match they envisioned, they will still think you are destined to be together. Gradually, this creates the “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder” effect, and you will become more and more beautiful in his eyes.

Moreover, when a man sees a woman frequently making eye contact with him and often smiling at him, he will also think that this girl has feelings for him, and may even like him. This will make him pay more attention to this girl and be more confident in pursuing her.

Consider yourself as a prize, not a freebie.

Many girls fail in love because they don’t consider themselves as a prize but as a freebie. Women often think that they have to be very good to a man in order for him to see their goodness. However, she hasn’t considered one thing: before the man has made any effort, he has easily won your heart, your kindness, and even your body. His subconscious will then consider you as easily attainable, like a freebie, which gives the impression of being worthless. Under this psychological suggestion, he won’t be interested in you and won’t cherish your efforts.

In a relationship with this kind of guy, although he might accept you as his girlfriend, he will show that he doesn’t care much about your feelings, doesn’t take you seriously, and only focuses on his own interests and preferences. Because you are not the prize that he had to work hard to obtain.

Here’s the simplest example: a little boy who buys a toy with his hard-earned pocket money versus a toy that someone else gave him for free. Which one will he treasure more?

So, make yourself a prize, something that a man has to work hard to obtain.