At the beginning of the article, let me ask everyone a question: in life, what’s more important, love or money?

I’m sure everyone would have different answers to such a question.

People in happy relationships might think love is important, while those in unhappy relationships might think money is important.

Regardless, after experiencing society, everyone will have their own thoughts on this issue.

In love, true love has nothing to do with material things. Some might even lower their standards for you. They say love without material possessions is like sand slipping through your fingers. But most people don’t come together because of money; it’s because of love.

In TV dramas, we often see stories of love between a poor girl and a rich young man. However, most of these stories end with the wealthy young man’s mother offering a large sum of money to make the girl leave her son.

Many viewers watching this scene on TV might envy it, saying, “If it were me, I’d leave immediately.”

But the female protagonist of the story, full of pride, simply takes her canvas bag and walks away. Many people seeing this scene might think she is foolish. With such a large sum of money, she could find someone better. Why choose to suffer like this? It’s not worth it.

In real life, ten million dollars is a significant amount for most people and is very tempting. “Would you leave your current partner for ten million dollars?”

Everyone would have different opinions on this question. Let’s now look at the responses of these two women.

Ms. Linda, 45 years old

Ms. Linda is 45 years old, married to her husband for 20 years, and they have a son and a daughter. To this question, Ms. Linda firmly replies, “Even if you give me ten million dollars, I wouldn’t want to leave my husband. Honestly, this ten million dollars is very tempting for me.

But my husband and I have been together for twenty years, sharing joys and sorrows. I believe this is something that wealth can’t buy. Although we are not very wealthy now, our family is happy. So, even if you offer me more money, I wouldn’t want to leave them.”

After hearing Ms. Linda’s words, I deeply agree. The happiness of a family cannot be measured by money. Being happy and joyful together is the most beautiful thing. Facing the ups and downs of life requires both partners to work together. After marriage, the happiness of a family needs both to complete it. Only when a couple is united can they reap the beauty of love.

Ms. Cherry, 30 years old

I have been married to my husband for exactly five years, and our child is also five years old. At the beginning of our relationship, it was sweet. He is five years older than me, and I felt he was caring. As time passed, our relationship grew stronger. Eventually, I was touched by his thoughtfulness and we quickly got married.

In the first year of marriage, to take care of the family better, I chose to quit my job and become a full-time mom. Initially, he promised to support me and our child for a lifetime. But when I asked him for money, I realized at that moment that no one is truly reliable. Due to our young child, I started working part-time while taking care of the child.

After five years of marriage, I couldn’t even bear to buy myself a new outfit. Every time I went out, I always thought of him and our child. I thought my sacrifices and patience would lead to his understanding, but in the end, it only brought me his disdain.

To be honest, my marriage is not particularly happy. I’ve wasted my youth and turned myself into an old woman. I believe women should learn to love themselves. They shouldn’t give up on themselves for a man, let alone love in a humble manner.

I thought having money would allow me to live the life I wanted. If I could choose again, I wouldn’t just focus on emotions.

In real life, women’s disappointment doesn’t stem from a lack of material things but from a man’s indifferent attitude towards marriage.

Love cannot be measured by money. If a woman truly loves you, it’s not about how much material wealth you have.

Most women’s disappointment comes from long-term accumulation. Once disappointment sets in, they no longer hold onto any hope.

An unhappy marriage is undoubtedly a torment for women. Most women are not afraid of hardship but of being wronged while not being loved in return.

When a woman truly loves you, it’s not about wealth. I hope every man can cherish the woman who is willing to stand by his side unconditionally. Marriage is not easy, so cherish it while you have it.