Within this “some men” group, it can be divided into two situations:

1. They are genuinely high-value individuals and really do not see much value in older unmarried women, as they do not meet their partner requirements.

2. They lack value and actually aren’t looking down on older unmarried women, but rather, they are not being appreciated by them, so they are feeling indignant.

Let’s break it down into two parts.

Firstly, let’s talk about the first group of people, who are undoubtedly high-value individuals.

You might think I’m talking nonsense, as you might believe that if a person is high-value, how could they remain single? Well, here’s the thing: they can choose to get married, but they’re not in a rush.

Because for men, the only reason for their single status is being poor.

Rarely do men remain single just because they are too old; for many men, once they solve their financial problems, getting married becomes a task that they can accomplish without worrying about the impact of age.

I have seen many men who are close to thirty or in their early thirties and are still unmarried, but they are not in a hurry because they have their own house, car, stable careers, and income. They are certain to get female contacts in matchmaking events, and if they use social dating apps, women will initiate conversations with them. They may even date some women for a few months, engage in a relationship, and leave after citing “incompatible personalities.”

They have a wide range of choices: young girls who have just entered society like these successful and mature uncles, and women of a certain age also like men who have a good foundation and experience.

So who do they choose? They will definitely go for the young girls—because they are young, beautiful, more impressionable, and admire them.

As for older unmarried women, they really don’t meet their standards, as they have better choices. Not just one of these men has told me that women who haven’t been married by a certain age must have some problems.

…You see, for these “all-rounder” type of people, they really do look down on older unmarried women, as they have better choices.

Next, let’s talk about the second group of people, who are not appreciated by others and are feeling indignant.

Compared to the first group of men, they are less impressive and their conditions are not as good as the first group. Consequently, it is difficult for them to gain the appreciation of older women who have more experience.

For younger women, they might be impressed by a fine lipstick; they might be moved to tears by a few sweet words. They might even believe in the notion of “potential.”

However, older women don’t fall for these tactics. They only observe practical actions, and are not easily fooled by sweet talk or expensive gifts. They don’t fall for the potential argument anymore. After all these years, if someone had potential, they would have shown it by now.

You see, these men quickly reveal their true colors in front of older women, who are not as easy to deceive as inexperienced young girls. At this point, they are left feeling defeated and powerless.

Feeling attacked, they are naturally unwilling to admit that they are being undervalued and can only express their dissatisfaction, saying: “You don’t appreciate me, but I don’t appreciate you either! Who do you think you are?”

In fact, you will find something interesting: it seems that regardless of the man’s situation, age is not an advantageous condition for women when choosing a partner.

So, even though I know many women truly dislike the idea of “finding a good family while they’re young,” the reality is that women do have a golden period for finding a partner. Once this golden period is missed, finding a suitable partner will require more time, effort, and a lot of luck.

So, if you are a woman, while you don’t need to prioritize getting married and having children, you should be more attentive to the men around you, and if you meet a suitable man, find a way to keep him.

Because time is indeed a very precious resource for you.

You may not feel it now, but after a certain age, you will understand what I mean.