The Traits That Attract Men’s Pursuit Turn Out to Be These!
First of all, let’s clarify a concept: a woman who can attract men, or who is considered outstanding in the eyes of men, does not necessarily mean that men will take the initiative to pursue her.
In other words, a woman being pursued by few men does not necessarily mean that she is not outstanding enough, nor is it because men think she is not good. She may be very attractive in the eyes of men, even a goddess-like figure, but few men dare to pursue her.
Why is this? The most common reasons are as follows:
- Faced with a woman who is more outstanding than themselves, men lack confidence.
Outstanding women are usually very confident, independent, and assertive. They may appear self-centered and even aloof, giving people a less approachable feeling. This is a great pressure for men who are not outstanding themselves. They dare not pursue, lack confidence, and feel that they cannot catch up, so they just admire from afar. After all, everyone will weigh the probability of success when wanting to do something. If they believe that the likelihood of success is very low, many people will retreat and give up. Of course, outstanding men will pursue outstanding women, but most men are ordinary, so it seems that those outstanding women are not pursued by anyone.
- Outstanding women do not like ambiguity and will directly reject those they are not interested in.
Outstanding women have a strong sense of self-worth and confidence. They usually do not need to prove their charm by the number of men pursuing them. When encountering men they are not interested in, they are not ambiguous and will directly reject them, letting them give up. Men who originally had the courage to pursue outstanding women have already mustered the courage before taking action. It’s very difficult for them to try, and they immediately encounter a cold and straightforward rejection, which makes them feel hopeless and they will soon give up.
- Why do some very ordinary women have many men pursuing them?
In life, it is not difficult to find that some women, although not outstanding in appearance and with average abilities, are very inconspicuous among the same sex. However, they are very popular among men, and many boys pursue them. Why is that?
Firstly, this still needs to be analyzed from the rational thinking of men.
People, especially men, go through rational analysis and judgment before doing anything, and then take action. When facing a woman, they know that the more outstanding the woman is, the smaller the chance of their pursuit being successful. If the woman’s abilities are similar to or even slightly lower than theirs, the chance of success greatly increases.
Secondly, men will observe the approachability of a woman before pursuing her.
You can observe women who attract men. They usually smile a lot and at least don’t look fierce. They seem approachable. These women are more approachable.
These women treat men with a gentle and non-confrontational attitude. When men talk to them, they respond with encouraging feedback, such as: patiently smiling at their eyes, frequently nodding in agreement, and often saying encouraging words like “you’re great,” and so on.
These behaviors will make men feel very hopeful, and they will be willing to try. No one wants to pursue something they know they have no chance of getting.
Moreover, women’s encouragement and praise may make some men mistakenly think that she has feelings for them, which is the most direct encouragement and temptation. As a result, even those who didn’t plan to pursue her may consider trying.
So, whether someone is pursued and how many pursue her is not directly proportional to whether the woman is truly outstanding. Instead, it is more related to the woman’s attitude and behavior. Of course, the premise is that the appearance and inner qualities cannot be too poor, otherwise, even if she is approachable, not many people will pursue her. With the current makeup and dressing techniques, there are basically very few unattractive women. So, as long as you pay more attention to your attitude towards others and exude more of the unique gentle aura of women, you will naturally attract men to pursue you.