When you love someone, it’s uncontrollable, just like coughing when you have a cold.

But when two people lose their feelings, it’s also uncontrollable, and you both will have a certain feeling.

Relationships are hard to explain, so sometimes don’t make love seem so sacred or complicated. Sometimes, look at things with a calm mind.

Cherish the hard-earned fate, but when two people no longer have fate, you must learn to let go.

If two people start off well but gradually lose the following three feelings, it means their fate has come to an end.

Smart people seize the opportunity to change this trend, but those with low emotional intelligence let things drift further apart.

Any relationship needs both people to maintain it. When issues arise, solve them together. When problems occur, work together to solve them.

Feeling Annoyed by Each Other

When two people first get together, they love each other, thinking the other is the most beautiful person in the world. Love is blind, this saying is true.

But as time goes by, some people will improve while others will drift apart.

Sometimes you’ll find that the person you once loved no longer stirs those feelings when you see them, even though neither of you did anything wrong. You continue living your lives as usual, but that initial spark is gone.

Sometimes that’s just how emotions work. When you have feelings for someone, you think they’re the best.

But one day, when those feelings disappear, you’ll realize you no longer love them.

So, some people only consider marrying a wealthy person because money provides security. If the person stops loving you, and you only married them out of love, you’ll be left with nothing.

But if the person is wealthy and stops loving you, at least your life is secure.

Sometimes it’s not about being materialistic, it’s just that some relationships are like that—fast to come, fast to go. You never know what will happen next.

Many couples start off romantic but soon face issues. They may have a good start after marriage, but end up in court.

In reality, love works this way. When love fades, so does the fate of the couple. So when you no longer feel anything for each other, it means your fate has reached its end.

Responsible individuals continue to treat the other person well even without feelings, while irresponsible ones leave once the spark is gone.

Feeling Extremely Annoyed by Each Other

At the beginning, you may treat each other well, but over time, you may grow to dislike each other.

Therefore, when together, avoid doing things that annoy the other person as they’ll start to dislike you in return.

For instance, some people intentionally do things to hurt the other person, especially women who want to test if their man truly loves them.

Sometimes men aren’t that clever either. If you keep hurting the other person, they’ll start feeling extremely annoyed.

Don’t overestimate your charm or the other person’s patience. We’re all human and susceptible to temptation and suffering.

When you continue tormenting the other person, they’ll grow to resent you. When they resent you, your relationship will hit a dead end.

So smart people know not to embarrass the other person or make them lose face.

When you meet someone, learn to cherish them. When you cherish someone, they’ll love you more. But if you keep creating problems, they’ll distance themselves from you.

Everything is mutual. Besides our parents, no one will accommodate or love you unconditionally. So, be mindful of your actions and limits.

If your partner or significant other starts to despise you more, pay attention. Your relationship may be nearing its end.

No Longer Wanting Intimacy with Each Other

When you no longer desire intimacy with the other person, take note.

If you truly love someone, everything feels natural. But when you no longer care, every moment together becomes unbearable.

When you enjoy leaning on the other, being close, it’s a sign of love. But if you resist or find it repulsive, you no longer love them.

So when you no longer seek intimacy with your partner, it’s time to reflect on your feelings.

Sometimes, when you no longer want to touch the other person, assess your situation and see if you still love them.

If you truly love someone, everything falls into place naturally. But if you avoid intimacy, feeling embarrassed when they touch you, there’s little love left.

In this world, everything has an expiration date. Smart people extend this period, keeping things fresh, while the foolish let relationships expire.