Being liked by someone is a great thing, especially when that someone is all-around great and someone you like as well.
When such a person appears in your life, and he likes you and you also like him, and you’re both single, then it’s no surprise that something good is starting between you two.
From getting to know each other to falling in love is a natural progression.
Two single people starting a relationship is quite common.
However, in theory, someone who says he likes you should only be single. But there are times when a person who is clearly not single, and is even married, will still tell you how much he likes you.
Not only will he express it in words, but he may also actively seek you out, wanting to go on dates and be together.
If you ever meet such a person, being liked is a good thing, but he is not truly single and does not have the status of loving you. It’s better to be sensible about it.
If You Don’t Like Him, Set Boundaries.
Matters of the heart are hard to predict, and sometimes, even if someone has great qualities and is superior in every way, you may not like him.
If you don’t like him, whether he’s single or married, there’s no need to waste your time with him.
Often, when you don’t like someone, you still seem to be attracted, always hoping to gain something from the other person. However, it seems like you’re taking advantage, but you often end up losing in the end.
With a single person, you might only lose some time and energy, and in the end, the other person will be surprised when they realize the truth and look down on you. But with someone who is not single, you will also be labeled as a homewrecker.
In any case, getting involved with someone who has a partner or is married is not a good thing, especially when you don’t even like him. It’s simply unnecessary.
For such a person, don’t hesitate. Just tell him clearly to keep his distance, and you should also keep yourself clean and avoid any behavior that might lead to misunderstandings.
Having too much contact with someone you don’t like and who has a family is ultimately meaningless. It only prevents you from being with someone you truly like and doing things you truly enjoy.
Like Him? Wait for Him to Become Single Again.
It’s possible that the person who is not single is really charming in your eyes and happens to be your type.
Even so, if you’re interested in him, it’s best not to overstep.
Don’t be too naive. When a married person says he likes you, most of the time, his affection is not genuine. He’s just feeling that his marriage is too dull and wants to find something exciting and stimulating.
If he really likes you, he wouldn’t try to balance his family life while pursuing you. He wouldn’t let your situation become so awkward and would only move forward with you without hesitation.
In a marriage, you’d hope that your partner is loyal to you. In return, you shouldn’t try to ruin someone else’s relationship.
Even if you like him, you should still exercise restraint. Unless one day he really becomes single again and is no longer involved with anyone else, and you still like him and believe he’s reliable, that’s when you can approach him.
Love and lack of love may not have a specific order, but marriage does have an order. If you’re going to be with someone, it must be when he is single. So, it’s your choice, and not believing that he’s married but still believing that he’s really into you is simply not necessary.
When a married person tells you he likes you, you don’t need to feel happy.
He’s not your type, so you don’t need to, even if he is, you still don’t need to.
Remember, he’s not in a position to say such a thing. When he says it, he’s not only doing wrong by his partner, but also by you.
A truly reliable person would not easily betray his own marriage. Someone who can be so irresponsible toward his marriage is not worthy of your trust. How can you trust that he won’t do the same to you in the future?
Moreover, you may not even reach that day. It’s more likely that he just wants to have some fun, and after a while, he’ll leave you and return to his family.
In this precious life, if you’re going to be with someone, make sure you’re their only one. Don’t settle for being anyone’s backup.
No one is worth this. Someone who is worth it would never let you be in such a position.