In relationships, women often lack a sense of security. They try to prove their boyfriend’s love through various means, but these attempts can sometimes backfire and harm the relationship. You really shouldn’t test a person, as the results are often not good.
A person’s love for you can truly be seen in the little things in life. You need to learn to observe carefully and feel your partner’s love over time. So, what does someone who truly loves you look like?
A person who truly loves you may not use a lot of sweet talk or fancy gestures, but they will always put you first.
Not long ago, I received a message from my best friend’s boyfriend, asking for help with a vote and even sending a small gift. This really surprised me, as my best friend’s boyfriend is someone who dislikes asking for help.
According to my best friend, her boyfriend has severe social anxiety and really dislikes socializing or asking others for help.
When I saw the message, I couldn’t help but tease him: “Rare to see you asking for help.” His reply was unexpected: “I have no choice, as long as she’s happy.”
See, someone who truly likes you will always put you first, thinking of you in everything they do. They would do anything to make you happy. It’s not about changing for someone; it’s about making things work because of their love for you.
People are often unsure about love and try to prove their partner’s unwavering love through certain means. This is why we often hear questions like:
“Is work more important than me?” “Is the game more important than me?” It’s a bit foolish to seek proof of your partner’s love through such boring questioning, as the signs of their love have already permeated into your daily life.
Everyone has their own personality, and you can’t set a “true love formula” for everyone. If you don’t meet certain criteria, it doesn’t mean you don’t love me.
Indeed, love needs to be validated in a relationship, but everyone expresses love differently. It takes time for you to work together. Instead of just saying “I love you,” don’t you think actions speak louder than words?
Maybe there were many things I couldn’t let go of before I met you, but after meeting you, I’m willing to try for you. Because I love you, I’m willing to compromise for you. Because I love you, I’m willing to make changes for you. Because I love you, you are the center of my life.
Before meeting you, maybe I was the most important person in my life. But since you appeared, I know that change isn’t easy. Your arrival has been rare, so I’m willing to love you and make you the center of my life.