“When I’ve traveled to many places, seen many clouds, and drunk many types of wine, I’ve only loved one person who was at their best age.”
When a man falls in love with a woman, he will write some beautiful words.
Whether he’s a literary person or a straightforward one, when he falls in love, he’ll definitely write some words, even if he’s not good at languages. At that moment, he’ll become a poet.
As Marx said:
“Sad love can make people become philosophers, and happy love can make people become poets.”
So, people will become extremely sentimental in love, especially men, who often can’t control their emotions and always think about getting the woman.
Many women and men will discover that men want to sleep with them after getting together, and sometimes they’ll doubt: “Do I have a problem? Is the other person only with me to sleep together?”
So, women will have many doubts, and conservative women will be very afraid.
Women fear that men will abandon them after getting together, but they’re also afraid of not getting together with men, fearing that men will leave them because of this. Therefore, men will never understand the complexity of women’s thoughts.
Regarding women’s concerns, we interviewed several men and asked them:
“What do men think after having a relationship with a woman?”
Different men have different opinions, and three men told the truth.
A Sense of Conquest
“When you search for her among thousands of people, you finally find her, and she’s right there.”
When a man falls in love with a woman, he’ll search for her among thousands of people, and sometimes he’ll be very afraid that she’ll be with someone else.
But after getting her, he’ll have a sense of conquest.
Mr. Frank said that when he got his girlfriend, he finally felt the joy of being a man, feeling like he’d finally obtained a complete woman, and that moment was very fulfilling.
Men are used to treating women as their spoils of war. When they pursue a woman, they’ve already made up their minds to get her.
In fact, there are many men around us who aren’t really in love with the woman but are willing to spend a lot of time and effort to get her, which is because of men’s conquest desire.
So, men are different from women in this aspect. Women might be willing to give their bodies because of their feelings, while men often want to conquer the woman.
Men are animals that think with their lower bodies, which can not only satisfy their physical needs but also their psychological vanity.
No Longer Worried About Losing Her
Mr. Andrew said that after getting the woman, he finally felt at ease.
Sometimes, people get a woman just to keep her, thinking that women value this aspect very much, so once they get a woman’s body, they can keep her for life.
Of course, some men really love women and want to keep them with this method, but this approach is very selfish, because every person has the right to choose.
As the saying goes:
“Life is precious, and love is even more valuable. If it’s for freedom, both can be sacrificed.”
Everyone is free, and when you love someone, you should respect their choices and let them choose freely, rather than harming them or hurting their hearts for your own selfish reasons.
There are many men around us who use this method to keep women, and after getting together, some women are more conservative, so at this time, if they feel their boyfriend isn’t suitable for them, but they’re also afraid of being rejected in the future, they’ll compromise.
Nowadays, society is more open, but many women still can’t let go, and many men still have that old-fashioned view, thinking that women should be pure and belong only to them.
So, as a man, don’t be too selfish. Your temporary thoughts might harm the woman for a lifetime.
The So-Called Innocent Girl Is Just That
When a man hasn’t gotten a woman, he’ll always fantasize about her and can’t stop thinking about her.
Mr. Bard said that when he was with his girlfriend, he was in a state of constant fantasy, and before they had a relationship, he’d often dream about sleeping with his girlfriend at night.
However, after they really slept together, he discovered that the so-called innocent girl was just that.
Mr. Bard said that after sleeping with his girlfriend, he realized that she was very different from what he had imagined, and her behavior in bed was beyond his expectations.
Mr. Bard thought that the woman he knew before was just pretending, and only in bed did he see her true self.
The thought that came to Mr. Bard’s mind was:
“The so-called innocent girl is just that!”
Sometimes men are like this: when women are reserved towards them, they think women should open up a bit, so they can get them quickly. But when a woman really opens up to them, they think she’s too casual, and many people can get her easily, so they can leave her.
Therefore, in life, women are often at a disadvantage in relationships because they don’t know which direction to go. If they’re too conservative, they’re afraid the man will leave them, and if they’re not conservative, they’re also afraid the man will leave them.
So, what do men think after having a relationship with a woman?
Different men have different thoughts, but good men do exist. You just need to develop wise eyes to find them.
At the same time, we should remind women: don’t give yourself away easily, because once you do, it’s hard to regret it.
When we meet someone worthy of our trust, we can take the next step with them. If we haven’t met such a person, no matter what, we should maintain our bottom line.