What Do Men Think about Women Cheating?

Men cheat because of their lower body, mostly because they like the red flags at home to stay up, and colorful flags fluttering outside; women cheat because of their upper body, most of them are grieving more than heartbroken, and it is difficult to look back, and they may even abandon their husband and children at all costs. Let it go.

It is said that men have a saying: It is better to marry a good prostitute than to cheat on your wife. But what is the reality? What would a man think about his cheating wife? Can he forgive his cheating partner?

A (35 years old): Leave, definitely have to leave

Call me chauvinistic or selfish, but I think men can be forgiven for cheating as long as they take care of their families. But it is absolutely not okay for a woman to cheat on her. To be honest, I have done some stealing outside, but it was just for fun, it didn’t affect my family, and I didn’t let my wife find out.

However, if my wife cheated on me, I would definitely not be able to accept it. Today is a society governed by the rule of law. I will not find someone to fix up the adulterer and adulteress, but I will not find some self-deceptive reasons to convince myself to forgive her.

My wife and I started dating in high school, and we dated for ten years before getting married. Basically, the first time between lovers is for each other, so I feel in my heart that she is mine. If someone touches my things, then I definitely won’t accept it and must get a divorce. Besides, if she chooses to betray me, it means she no longer loves me. There is no point in forcing her. It is more practical to get together and break up. Maybe I will ask her to cleanse herself and leave the house.

B (40 years old): If you can bear it, bear with it. Never leave home. Let’s live our own lives first.

If my wife cheated on me, I would definitely lose my temper and engage in domestic violence if I found out, but I would definitely not let anyone else know. If she made the mistake unintentionally, taking into account the children, the elderly, and property, I would tolerate it, but that doesn’t mean I forgive her.

We men are different from women. After a woman finds out that her man has cheated on her, she has to make a fuss and cry everywhere in order to get sympathy from others. Men value their own face most, and we will swallow the pain in our stomachs. Even if he won’t divorce his cheating wife, he won’t live a good life with her. He will just treat her as a decoration, as long as she loves her children and takes care of the elderly.

My heart will definitely not be set on her anymore. There are a lot of women out there. If I meet one who suits my liking, I don’t need to care about her feelings. Who should let her fail me first?

C (27 years old): It’s better for men to be more realistic. If it’s a high-quality woman, then just keep doing it.

I’m not married yet, so I haven’t thought about it at all. If my girlfriend cheated on her, I would definitely break up with her immediately.

If she is married and she cheats, it depends on her financial status in the family. If she is a housewife and relies on me for food, clothing, housing and transportation, and she dares to cheat, then I will definitely slap her on my face. , kicked out of the house.

If she is an elite in the workplace, has a higher income than me, and has a better external image than me in all aspects, I should try to restrain myself and show my magnanimity in front of her. As long as she just makes a temporary mistake and promises not to do it again, I can continue this family. Men may be more realistic. Even if they are betrayed, they only decide how to treat her based on the benefits they can bring to me.

In fact, sometimes women have objective reasons for cheating, which is understandable. To be honest, my wife has a lover who we have been dating for several years behind my back. I just turn a blind eye, as long as they don’t make a big deal about it.

Since I had surgery on my cervical spine, I am no longer good in that area and cannot give her what she wants. Therefore, I can only accept her cheating again and again. Fortunately, she is quite family-oriented.

I don’t want to get divorced. They say that family scandals should not be made public. Besides, my current conditions are not very good. If I had money, I might choose to divorce and remarry a wife who is dedicated to me, but if I change my wife, my health will not be better. After all, my wife and I have been married for more than 20 years. Apart from having a lover, she is still good to me. As long as she still has this home in her heart, knows the way home, and knows that I’m waiting for her at home, that’s all. Human life is so long, how can everything be perfect?

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Forgiveness is not because the heart is generous, but because the situation is unavoidable; unforgiveness is not necessarily because the sin is unforgivable, but because the heart has left.

There are differences between men and women when it comes to “forgiveness”. Men are more likely to forgive mental infidelity, while women are more likely to forgive physical infidelity. In fact, when a woman cheats on a man, they will all be angry and painful, but they will adopt different methods. After all, everyone has different faces. However, one thing is unquestionable, that is, after a woman cheats, even if there is no divorce, they are destined to continue a miserable marriage, and they cannot live a happy life in a miserable life.