Life is like a train. On the way to the end, there are always people getting on and off.
Some people are passers-by in life, and they can’t wait to get off the bus before they have walked a few stops together; while some people are evergreen trees in life, and they choose once for a lifetime.
Once an important person appears in life, it will be difficult to forget. They will always be brand new in the remembrance of time.
For a man, the most unforgettable woman in his life is not his wife, but the woman who gave him these three feelings.
- The woman who gave him his first love experience
Perhaps the biggest regret in life is that when you don’t know how to love, you meet the person you want to cherish for the rest of your life. If the two people miss each other, there is no way to become lovers.
Although time will eventually smooth away all the scars, the beautiful feeling that makes a man’s heart beat when his first love appears deep in his memory is enough to last a lifetime.
I don’t know where the love started, but it goes deeper and deeper.
Love in childhood is always pure and beautiful, without the suspicion and calculation in the adult world. As long as you like it, you will recognize it without hesitation.
The love you have when you are young is to truly love someone without any pressure or impurities.
Some feelings are really rare. In a man’s life, the existence of a woman like the white moonlight is a lifelong healing.
- She is the woman he loves most but cannot get.
The greatest dissatisfaction in life is not that you get it and then lose it blankly, but that you want to fight for it but never get it.
Eason Chan sang in the song “Red Roses and White Roses”: What you can’t get is always turbulent, and being favored is always confident.
In a man’s mind, unearned feelings will always be placed in the corner of his heart. Maybe I don’t think about it at all in daily life, but in the dead of night, my heart will always drag up bits and pieces of the past restlessly.
Compared with letting go calmly, compared with being in a relationship forever, not being able to love is the most heartbreaking. You want to pick it up but can’t pick it up, and you want to put it down but you can’t let it go.
I can only let the inner world pull repeatedly, dream back at midnight, let ideals and reality always fight, and finally reach the desired balance.
It is common in men’s relationships to never forget the person you love but not to love for the rest of your life.
- The woman who makes him feel so indebted
Only by being indebted to each other can the ties be broken.
In a man’s world, a woman will never forget her if she gives him a sense of indebtedness. No matter how long it takes for a new life to begin, the old love will never be forgotten.
Whether it is Luo Zijun to Chen Junsheng in “The First Half of My Life” or Fu Wenpei to Lu Zhenhua in “The Misty and Rain”, when all the misfortune of a woman’s life is given by men, a conscientious man will owe something to him because of his debt. Women who have passed away will never forget them.
Therefore, in the world of emotions, it is particularly interesting. It was the other person who wanted to leave at the beginning, but it is also the other person who wants to go back and make amends for his mistakes.
Maybe it’s because I owe too much and feel too guilty, so I think about spending time to make up for it. There is always a big hole in my heart that can’t be filled. I can’t accept it calmly, let alone let it go.
Not all people who meet in the vast sea of people can go to the ending they want.
In the world of love, there are many regrets about not being able to get together.
Instead of being sentimental and obsessed with things, immersed in memories, and never willing to move forward, it is better to let myself go and cherish the life in front of me.