“Love is a woman’s life history, but just a phase in a man’s life.”

Usually, it’s the men who start pursuing women, even though love is just a phase for them.

Men may not find love that crucial in their world, but when pursuing a woman, they value her greatly.

When a man successfully pursues a woman, he gains respect; if he fails, he might doubt his abilities.

“Don’t try to catch a cooked duck.”

Men pursuing women should observe carefully. When a woman doesn’t resist or even responds positively to a man’s actions, it shows she’s accepting him silently.

In relationships, men need to be attentive and strike while the iron is hot to win over the woman’s heart.

It’s often said that women should be tactful, and men should understand women’s thoughts to succeed effortlessly.

She Won’t Resist Your Affectionate Words

In many cases, when a man starts saying ambiguous words to a woman, hoping to catch her attention, her response reveals her interest.

If a woman doesn’t avoid or responds positively to such words, it indicates her growing acceptance of the man.

Ambiguous words are usually reserved for lovers. Women set boundaries in relationships; if they haven’t accepted a man, he won’t use ambiguous words.

A friend recently told me, “I had a pursuer for almost half a year. Every time he said something ambiguous, I felt disgusted and repelled. So, I clarified things, hoping he finds his happiness.”

In most cases, if a woman is interested in a man, she may respond to his ambiguous advances, but if not, she might react like my friend.

Smart women who don’t accept a man’s love won’t entertain his ambiguous words.

If a woman accepts ambiguous words, the man can seize the opportunity to pursue her fiercely.

She Won’t Resist Physical Contact

Physical contact is intimate. Without a romantic relationship, men and women usually maintain a distance.

As the saying goes, “Men and women should maintain a certain distance.”

Women are cautious in relationships. If they haven’t defined their relationship but introduce a man to their friends, it means they see him as a boyfriend.

Women often lack security and seek approval from friends in relationships, so they introduce their boyfriends to friends.

A colleague once had an experience. Despite never dating, he was diligent in his studies. When he pursued a beautiful, gentle girl at work, she initially resisted sitting with him. But over time, her attitude changed, showing more physical affection.

One evening after work, he asked her, “Do you want to be with me?”

She hesitated, saying, “I need to test you.”

However, when a woman no longer resists physical contact and even initiates it, she has developed feelings for the man.

So, if a man is attentive, he will understand a woman’s feelings, unlike my colleague who missed out on love due to his cluelessness.

She Won’t Resist You Meeting Her Friends

If a woman doesn’t mind a man meeting her close friends, it signifies her acceptance of him.

Women are cautious in relationships. If they haven’t defined their relationship but let friends know about the man pursuing them, they won’t introduce him to close friends.

When a woman introduces a man to her close friends, it implies she sees him as her boyfriend.

Women often seek their friends’ approval for relationships to feel secure, so they introduce their boyfriends to friends.

Men need to understand that when women don’t resist certain things, it indicates their acceptance.

Just like cooking, men need to adjust their approach in relationships according to women’s feelings to succeed.