A person who is not interested in you will often say three things to you, unable to pretend

Some thoughts in a person’s heart can be expressed through words. Even if expressed very subtly or unintentionally, they can reflect a person’s inner feelings.

So smart people always pay attention to the words of others, especially when they love the other person. They often try to understand the other person and their own opinions through the other person’s words and actions.

When the other person says things that show they are not interested in you, it’s time to be an interesting person. Learn to quietly leave instead of constantly pursuing or waiting for them.

Love is important, but compared to love, self-respect is even more crucial. Our parents brought us into this world not to be so humble. They want us to live better lives. For our parents, we must stand tall.

A person who is not interested in you will often say these three things to you. This cannot be faked.

You will find someone better

If someone tells you they are not good enough for you, it means you will find someone better. Don’t think they believe they don’t deserve you. It’s actually that they feel you don’t deserve them and they don’t want to be with you.

Shen Congwen said:

“I have walked across many bridges, seen many clouds, tasted many types of wine, but I have only loved one person of the right age.”

If someone also has feelings for you, they will feel lucky to have met you, just as Shen Congwen said: meeting you at the right age.

However, if someone feels you are not the one they want or they have a more suitable choice, they might say they are not good enough for you, and you will find someone better in the future.

If someone often says this, it doesn’t mean they are insecure. They are trying to tell you that there is no future for you both. They are politely rejecting you.

So when someone keeps saying this to you, don’t stay with them. Being together will only make you more upset because there is no future for the two of you.

We are not very compatible

If someone says we are not compatible, it means they don’t see you as the one they want. They don’t like you, so they express it this way.

In today’s society, when someone doesn’t like another person, they often use this phrase to evade the issue. Even when two people are breaking up, they often use this phrase.

This phrase has become a universal one. It can be used for breakups between couples, divorces between spouses, or when someone rejects another person.

If two people truly love each other, even if they are not compatible, they will communicate and learn from each other, gradually understanding each other.

In this world, there is no one exactly like you, and there is no one perfectly suited for you. If someone is truly right for you, it means you both love each other, are attracted to each other, willing to learn from each other, becoming more similar and more suitable over time.

So when someone tells you this, don’t tell them, “We will be suitable in the future, I will try to understand you.” It’s pointless because they are not interested in you.

Stop waiting for me

If someone really likes you and you are not together yet, they won’t agree to be with someone else because they love you and will keep waiting.

Guo Jingming said:

“Used to feeling uncomfortable, used to missing you, used to waiting for you, but I have never gotten used to not seeing you.”

Waiting can become a habit. When you are used to waiting for someone, not seeing them cuts deep.

But not all waiting will earn someone’s affection. Sometimes, it’s just wishful thinking.

If someone truly loves you and sees you waiting for them, they will confess their feelings. But if they don’t love you, they might gently tell you, “Stop waiting for me.” This implies they don’t want you to wait anymore, and the message is clear.

In relationships, especially when a man tells a woman this, she should have some pride. If someone tells you not to wait, you shouldn’t continue waiting. Turn around and find someone else!

There are plenty of attractive people in this world, and there is someone suitable for you. Don’t hang on to one person forever. Especially when someone you are waiting for often says:

Every word left unsaid by the other person will leave a sense of desolation in your heart, but they don’t understand your feelings.

If you’re waiting for someone, take a look at those who are waiting for you. Among them, there is surely someone outstanding. But because you have feelings for someone else, you fail to see their goodness.

The saying goes, “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.” Sometimes, the person you are waiting for is not the best. It’s just your feelings for them that create that illusion. When you stop loving them, you may realize they were never right for you.

Loving someone makes you believe they are the best, and you give your all to them. However, this is a misconception. Everyone has their strengths and unique traits. Learn to see people with an open mind, and you will feel more comfortable. Don’t tie yourself to one person forever.

Everyone should meet someone who appreciates them, just as you appreciate others. When someone appreciates you, it will surely make you happy. It’s not easy to find someone who appreciates you in this vast world.

But if you admire someone greatly, and they don’t reciprocate, it can be heartbreaking. Leave such people early. Don’t wait until you’ve loved in vain and suffered before coming back. This might give you a bias against love and make you afraid to love again.

Therefore, spend your life with someone worthy. In the eyes of someone worthy, you are an interesting person.