In life, we always have different feelings when facing different people.

For some people, after just communicating with each other, we will find that they are completely incompatible with each other. For some people, no matter what they say, they can talk to each other very congenially and feel very sympathetic.

Naturally, we won’t want to get close to someone we can’t talk to. There’s no need to always make ourselves feel uncomfortable. As for someone we can talk to, of course we will like it very much and will be happy to stay with that person.

After all, when two people get along and chat, it feels really good. It feels like they have found an understanding. As Liao Yimei said, meeting love and sex are not rare, but meeting each other is rare. Got an understanding.

Come to think of it, everyone is the same and would be eager to have such a chat.

Invisibly, this will determine whether we are willing to get close to a person. At the same time, for the future partner, we can care about the other person’s character and family background, but it must also be based on the premise that we can talk to each other.

If we can talk well, each other will not always feel lonely.

The reason why many people choose marriage is because they feel that they are too lonely alone, and they hope to have someone by their side to accompany them all the time, so that they can be happier.

However, with such a longing in mind, I found out after I got married that after getting married, my loneliness did not disappear when there was someone around me. Instead, I just became lonelier than when I was alone.

Because at that time, the other party couldn’t understand some words at all, so I didn’t want to say them anymore.

When you are alone, because you are the only one, you will not expect someone to accompany you all the time to relieve your loneliness. When you are two people, there are obviously people around you, but you still have nowhere to talk, so the loneliness in your heart will naturally disappear. It will increase day by day.

The loneliness in everyone’s heart can never be resolved by having someone by your side. What you need is not just anyone, but a soul that can enter your heart and be in tune with yourself.

Only with a person who has similar levels and cognition in all aspects, and who understands what you are thinking, can you find solace in him, and you will not always feel so alone, and you can feel, I have a partner.

If we can talk well, we will be more harmonious when we get along.

Falling in love is easy, maybe because of good looks, or maybe because the other person has exactly what you want.

However, falling in love is easy, but getting along is particularly difficult. When two people are together, if you often can’t even understand what each other says, a lot of troubles will naturally arise.

Like that, even if you are together reluctantly, it will be difficult for you to feel how happy you are, and you will always feel awkward.

On the contrary, if you can always talk happily, then you will not feel embarrassed when you are not talking, and when you talk, you can always understand what the other person means and catch what the other person says. Think about it, that way The years will also be great.

A relationship needs some material support, and it also needs some spiritual things to make each other recognize each other.

As for the spiritual level, caring for each other, being able to understand each other well, and being able to talk happily are always very important. That is not only a kind of ability, but also a proof that each other is quite compatible at the ideological level.

If we can talk well, we will better resolve conflicts.

No matter how close two people are, they will still have many differences, and some problems will arise in trivial days.

Many relationships do not end well in the end, often because each other does not have the ability to solve problems. When there is no way to solve the problem, there will be a thorn in each other’s hearts, and the relationship will not continue.

As for why they don’t have this ability, maybe they are too willful and unwilling to bow their heads. More likely, they are not on the same level at all. They want to solve the problem, but they don’t have the strength to solve it.

People who can talk well are different. Whenever a problem occurs, instead of always not knowing where the problem is, you will find the key to the problem at once and be able to express your thoughts well. , and can also understand each other.

And when you can be so precise, no matter how many problems you have, they will no longer be problems, they will all be properly handled.

When it comes to relationships, the biggest fear is not being able to express your own feelings or understand the other person’s thoughts. If you can do these two things, many suspicions will disappear, and many misunderstandings will be solved. Emotions will naturally be much more reliable.

In this life, please love someone who you can talk to.

A partner who will be willing to listen and understand no matter what you say.

It seems so simple to be able to chat, but in fact, if you want to really be able to chat, each other’s knowledge, understanding, and thoughts must be highly consistent and at about the same level.

For those who can do this, it has been destined from the beginning that you are on the same wavelength and will be traveling together.

Everyone in the world is different, and all of a person’s experiences and choices make each of us different.

We don’t always have to criticize why others are different from us. We just need to find the one who can go with us, and that’s good.