There is a person living in your heart, and you live in the other person’s heart at the same time. This is everyone’s desire.

Unfortunately, imagination is always beautiful, but reality is often not the case.

More often than not, you like someone and take that person into your heart, but the other person doesn’t take you seriously at all.

Maybe, the other person doesn’t want to get close to you at all, or maybe, even if that person is right next to you, it’s just for other purposes, not because he really wants to be with you.

There is always such an imbalance between loving and being loved, which causes too many people to be in pain when they are in love.

And if you don’t want to be in such pain all the time, when you realize that someone doesn’t have you in their heart, not now, and never in the future, you don’t have to continue to like the other person stupidly, and you need to know how to take back your feelings in time.

I don’t take the initiative towards you, and I don’t respond to you very much.

Although some people are not that proactive towards you, as long as you look for them, they will always be there, respond to everything, and will never neglect you. Such people may just be a little introverted, but they are not incompetent. Care about you.

Compared with such people, there are also some people who will never take the initiative to look for you if you don’t look for them. Even if you take the initiative to look for them, they will not be very welcoming, but they will always be happy with you. You are particularly indifferent.

Either he doesn’t reply to your message at all, as if he didn’t receive it, or he just talks to you and doesn’t want to waste too much time or talk with you.

He obviously doesn’t want to have much interaction with you, and feels that your initiative is just an interruption. Of course, he is not very busy, nor does he have anything to hide, but it is just that in his heart, there is no place for you at all.

People are very realistic. The more they care, the more time they are willing to spend unconsciously. The less they like it, the more they just want to hide away.

For people who don’t have you in their hearts, saying another word to you is redundant. It would be better to spend it in a daze, watching a video.

He only cares about himself and never considers your feelings.

There are always those people who keep saying how much they love you, but when getting along with them, they will always only consider themselves.

When you have a conflict, he won’t care whether you will be sad or not, he will just leave you alone. When there is any disagreement between you, his first consideration is not whether you will be wronged, but his own. Benefit.

Between you, no matter how much you suffer, no matter how much you pay for him, no matter how much you ask for perfection from him, he will not feel anything, but he will only feel that it is natural and everything is what you should do. .

And if you slightly offend his interests, even if you spend a little more money on him or fail to accommodate him well, he will accuse you in various ways, saying that you are too selfish and that you don’t love him at all. he.

When you are with him, what you feel is that in his eyes, there is always only himself, and he cannot see you at all.

For a person who never thinks about you and needs you to accommodate him, you don’t have to think that he doesn’t know how to love you. He just doesn’t love you at all. From beginning to end, what he loves is just you. Only himself.

When you need him, he is basically not there.

If you want to see someone clearly, you can look at small details in daily life, and even more in special moments.

If, when you are in trouble and need help, a person comes to you regardless, faces it with you, and helps you as much as he can, then of course this person is not just enthusiastic , but because I have you in my heart.

For a person who cares about you, his own affairs are very important, and your affairs are also very important. He cannot see you unhappy, nor can he see you always alone and helpless. No matter what time, he will be your most solid backing.

To him, your business is his business, and he has to help you solve the problem before he can feel at ease.

As for the person who seems to love you very much on weekdays, but always disappears at critical moments, waiting for you for various reasons, and just doesn’t show up even if there is no reason, he may not really have something wrong, but he just doesn’t want to be It’s just trouble for you.

Because he doesn’t have you in his heart, when you need him, his first reaction is not to worry about you, but to draw a clear line with you, and doesn’t want to get involved and waste his time and energy.

If a person does not have your most intuitive expression in his heart, his attitude towards you will be very cold and perfunctory.

I don’t want to chat with you, I won’t think about things from your perspective, and I don’t want to take responsibility for your affairs.

Even if he says every word how much he likes you, his actions always tell you that you are nothing.

Words may be deceiving, and a person can make nonsense, but actions are controlled by a person’s heart. Many natural actions cannot be hidden at all, and they cannot deceive people.

Of course, if the person you care about doesn’t like you, you can be willful for a while and give yourself some time to try and see it, but you don’t have to keep thinking about it when you find that there is really no chance for you. Like to continue.

Wishful thinking is ultimately meaningless and will not bring any good results.

Instead of forcing things all the time, it is better to let the other person go and let yourself go.