Love requires two people to protect it together.

When we start a relationship, we should keep some distance from other people of the opposite sex.

Keep a balance in your mind and know what you can and cannot do.

In the relationship between the sexes, there are three things that need special attention. Many tragedies begin from doing these three things.

1. Frequent contact

There is such a couple who have been married for more than ten years and have a 12-year-old child. Their life is quite happy.

But starting from a class reunion a few years ago, this happy marriage slowly collapsed.

After a party a few years ago, my wife frequently chatted with a male classmate.

At the beginning, the husband noticed something was wrong. Because he trusted the other party, he did not express his dissatisfaction for fear of making his wife unhappy.

So I could only break my teeth and swallow it in my stomach, showing a magnanimous look.

What he never expected was that because of his trust, his wife intensified her behavior and began to go out often and come home late.

Every time I asked about it, I went out to play with my classmates. I didn’t even care about my children’s studies anymore, as if they didn’t care.

Out of suspicion, the husband clicked on the surveillance camera at home, not only pretending not to know, but also pretending to be frightened.

My wife often brought this male classmate home to chat with her, and she came here every now and then.

The happy marriage broke down, and the bridge returned to the bridge and the road returned to the road.

After the divorce, my wife did not continue to communicate with that classmate, but the tragedy had happened and everything was irreversible.

A blurred sense of boundaries between men and women will bring harm to the other half, leading to uneasiness and suspicion in the partner, which will eventually erupt into an irreversible tragedy.

Regardless of men and women, starting to chat frequently with the opposite sex is the beginning of a love crisis.

2. Acting too intimately

After you get married or have a partner, even if you have a very good confidant of the opposite sex, you should avoid some relatively intimate actions.

I had a friend in college. After he fell in love, he had conflicts with his girlfriend M every day, and finally the woman broke up with him.

Simply speaking, his girlfriend M also has a very good relationship with her husband. After her husband’s questioning, she finally found out the reason for the ups and downs in their relationship.

It turns out that this friend of mine has a very good friend, and the two of them are in constant contact.

But sometimes it should be a date for two people, but there is one more person.

There are 3 people for eating, 3 people for shopping, and 3 people for going to the amusement park.

M looked at the two of them talking and laughing, and his heart began to feel lemony.

There was even one time when we were climbing a mountain and encountered a steep slope. The two of them reached out at the same time, but they pulled up that friend.

And this was like a thorn in M’s heart.

There are differences between men and women. Being too close to other people of the opposite sex when you have a partner is a kind of harm to your partner.

Don’t say anything:

“I have known him (her) for a long time. If anything, we would have been together long ago.”

Please put yourself in someone else’s shoes when you say this:

If your partner has a follower-like confidant, and they stay together, talking, laughing, and holding hands, would you feel happy?

If you think this doesn’t matter, then you win, and being a gentleman is not enough.

3. Chatting without restraint

What should and should not be talked about with friends should be an ability that everyone must learn.

Language can express a lot of signals. When communicating with the opposite sex, people who are interested should pay attention to the sense of propriety in their speech.

Some jokes are unintentional on the part of the teller but intentional on the part of the listener.

The simplest and most feasible way to keep a relationship from crossing the line is to try not to say inappropriate or ambiguous words when two people are chatting.

Do not touch some ambiguous-sounding titles, relatively open jokes, or even personal matters with your partner.

You can talk about work, entertainment and gossip, happy and unhappy things, but please be careful about propriety.

You probably don’t want to hear from other people that your partner talks dirty and behaves intimately with others.

Since they are just friends, then do your duty as a friend, don’t touch someone, care too much, and contact them frequently!

If this continues, the consequences will be disastrous, and a relationship may very well break up.

If you love her, give her the most adequate sense of security.