In this world, many relationships are unable to last long, especially extramarital affairs.

An extramarital affair is like two little mice hiding in a dark place. Although the two people may be very happy inside, the space is extremely cramped. It’s only a matter of time before they feel trapped in such a small space.

Even if a married couple encounters difficulties, they may not withstand the test, let alone the partner of an extramarital affair.

The couple has their own parents and children. Even in such a perfect family, they may still prioritize their own interests when facing difficulties. What’s more, in an extramarital affair involving only the two of you, the relationship is even more unstable.

However, there is one way to make an extramarital affair last, but many people are unaware of it: don’t let your wife or anyone else know about your extramarital affair.

But this method is something many people can’t achieve. Many will be found out by others.

Extramarital Affairs Cannot Be Seen In The Sky

When a neighbor’s daughter, a college graduate, fell for a married man, she was in a difficult family situation and unsatisfied with her job. She decided to seduce a married man, but he had to be wealthy.

At first, she only wanted to be with him for his money and to secure a job through him. But later, she got deeper and deeper involved. Unimaginable things happened between them, and she even had a child with him.

In the end, her family found out, and they urged her to catch the man and marry him. At first, the man agreed to marry her, but later he backed out. Ultimately, they became enemies, and she was left abandoned.

In an extramarital affair, the situation can be quite dark, especially for a man. A man cannot give up his family for an extramarital affair. Although he may enjoy being with someone else, he values his family the most.

So, women need to understand that once an extramarital affair begins, it will not see the light of day.

Women shouldn’t be so naive, thinking the other person will definitely be with them, which is impossible.

Men can be just as naive sometimes. A man may give up his family and immediately divorce his wife for someone else, but in the end, it’s a lose-lose situation, and no one benefits.

Therefore, in an extramarital affair, one must keep a clear head. You should understand that your relationship will not see the light of day. You cannot bring the other person home unless you become enemies with your family, and the other person is also unlikely to give up everything for you, as such love is rare.

Extramarital Love Shouldn’t Be Over-Expected

Sometimes, a young woman has good conditions and a good education, but still chooses to be with a married man. This behavior is irresponsible to herself and to others, and it’s a waste of her youth.

So, sometimes you need to find the right target. Being with someone who doesn’t have a family is the best option. Together, you can strive for a better future, instead of expecting to reap the rewards without effort.

In an extramarital affair, both men and women should not expect too much. Don’t think the other person will be good to you, or that they will abandon their other half. Very few people will abandon their other half.

You may feel especially happy with the other person, so you think they will always be with you. But when the other person has to choose between you and their family, you are often sacrificed.

In an extramarital affair, it’s unfair. Sometimes you can only suffer in silence.

So, when you have an extramarital affair, you need to know your position is not that high. After something happens, you are the one who gets hurt, not the other person’s lover.

And if you are the third party, others will view you differently, and neighbors will gossip about you.

There Are No Secrets in the World

There are no secrets in the world, and the truth will always come out.

So, you may think you can plan a perfect extramarital affair, engage in inappropriate relationships with many people, and no one will find out. You may still enjoy fame and fortune. Justice may be delayed, but it will never disappear. Just like a singer, well, let’s not mention the name. This person seemed to sing well and had a good character.

But last year, it emerged that this person had many inappropriate relationships with others, and their career plummeted as a result.

So, sometimes when you do things with a lucky attitude, you always think you can keep going like this forever, without realizing that you may face consequences later and become the laughingstock of the world.

If you want a long-lasting extramarital affair, you need to keep it a secret. Only the two of you can know about it. But this is almost impossible, so no one can achieve it.

Because when you have an extramarital affair, you and the other person will naturally go to many places together. When you go to many places with the other person, people will naturally notice your whereabouts, and you two may be exposed.