It’s said that a girl’s heart is fragile and can’t handle rejection by a guy. But that’s how emotions work; everyone has the right to choose their partner.
I hope every girl can find her Mr. Right, but at the same time, I also hope that girls, after being rejected by a guy, can take the right approach.
1. No Resentment
There are often people who, after being rejected by a guy, develop a grudge and can’t stand to see anything good about the guy. They might even go to extremes and seek revenge on him and the person he likes to vent their displeasure.
In the end, it only does harm to everyone. This is a very unwise and foolish approach that will only push the guy further away.
2. Change Your Image
Everyone pursues things of beauty. A lovely appearance is especially pleasing. If you don’t know how to do makeup, it’s time to reflect on yourself.
Make an effort to dress well and look neat and clean every day. Your appearance is the first language of communication, and some people are left speechless while others find solace in it.
3. Improve Yourself
A beautiful vase with a lovely bouquet of flowers will attract attention wherever it’s placed. Similarly, girls with an attractive appearance and outstanding inner qualities are like this vase. They stand out no matter where they are. Don’t fear being rejected by a guy; he’ll be the one regretting it next.
4. Keep Your Distance
After being rejected by a guy you like, don’t cry or feel disheartened. Be confident. Maybe he’s not familiar with you enough, or perhaps he has someone else he loves. You can’t force feelings in a relationship.
What’s meant to be will be. If it’s not meant to be, there’s no use forcing it. So, it’s best to keep your distance from him. Although it’s said that you can still be friends after a breakup, or maintain a casual relationship after a rejection, it’s rarely possible in reality. Since you like him, just wish him well. Continue living your life to the fullest.
These are the steps I recommend for handling rejection by a guy. If you’re going through this experience and reading this article, I hope it can help you and guide you out of the haze, back to happy times.