What kind of life is smoother? My answer is: The cleaner your heart, the smoother your life.
My family has three brothers. We all got married and moved out after we grew up. Recently, my older brother and middle brother argued about the property division because our house was being demolished. Since I’m the youngest, my dad favors me.
My dad said the demolition money should be divided equally among the three brothers. But my older brother and middle brother thought they should get more because they had more financial pressure.
This caused a lot of conflict in the family. In the end, I chose to back out. I didn’t care about the money, but I cared about our brotherly love.
I’d rather give my share to my parents for their retirement than ruin the family for a few thousand dollars. Many people think I’m stupid, but I’d say we meet different people and experience different things in life. If you don’t know how to reconcile, it’s a disaster for yourself.
In real life, the cleaner your heart, the smoother your life. Whether it’s about family or love, only when you learn to let go can you gain more.
Learn to Let Go in Relationships:
A consultant once said: “Shallow fate, deep affection.”
In real life, some people may be destined to be together but not meant to be. But we can’t forget those we deeply loved. Everyone has a weakness in their heart.
The Classic of Poetry has a line: “Death and life are bound together, we’ll grow old together, holding your hand, growing old together.” When facing love, everyone has beautiful expectations. We all hope to grow old with the person we deeply love.
But not every relationship is as beautiful as we imagine. Fate is something you can encounter, but not something you can seek. When you understand this, you’ll be more carefree.
Life is like a filter. What stays at the end is always the best.
Learn to Let Go in Relationships:
In real life, we meet all kinds of people and experience all kinds of things. But not everyone can stay with you forever. Some people accompany us for a while and then choose to leave. Others will stay with us and share the difficulties and obstacles.
As we grow older, we need to understand that when someone leaves, we don’t need to get to the bottom of things. We just need to say thank you to those who stay.
Life is full of ups and downs. May you be firm but gentle, confident but humble, sunny and clear. Life is so long. I hope you can be true to yourself and live your life.
Don’t care too much about other people’s opinions. Those who leave you were never yours to begin with.
Learn to Let Go in Relationships:
Maybe some people will say, “I can’t get over his departure for a while.” But I’d say, there are so many things you need to experience in this world. You shouldn’t give up on yourself. Learn to heal yourself, be clean, elegant, gentle, and ambitious.
When you understand the truth of life, you’ll realize that no one is indispensable. It’s just that someone doesn’t cherish someone else.
No matter what kind of relationship it is, both parties need to learn to cherish each other. If you forget this, you’ll eventually be confused.
Learn to Let Go in Relationships:
Life is like that. We don’t need to force others. If someone is willing to stay by your side unconditionally, the only thing you can do is cherish them and be grateful.
Haruki Murakami once said: “When I tell you I like you, it doesn’t necessarily mean I want to be with you.”
In real life, it’s the same with feelings. Liking doesn’t necessarily mean owning. Those who are willing to silently pay for you are the ones you should truly treat well. The right person will heal you. The wrong person will only drain you. You know best whether a relationship is comfortable or not.
So, cherish the right person if you meet them. If you meet the wrong person, learn to cut your losses.
Hard Work Is the King in Your Career:
On the road of life, we should never overestimate our position in other people’s minds. You may think others care about you, but in reality, if you have no value, you’re nothing in their eyes.
So, keep improving your skills in all aspects. This way, you’ll be respected more. If you lack the ability and skills, even if you meet someone, they won’t take you seriously.
What’s the meaning of your efforts in this world? I believe everyone has a different answer. But I’d say the meaning of hard work is to live a better life.
When you’re young, you may not think making money is important. But when you reach a certain age, you’ll find that poetry and the distance are actually expensive. If you don’t work hard, you can’t even support your dreams. So, we must work hard, not only for an ideal life, but also for the human touch, for the wind and sunshine of tomorrow.
Hard Work Is the King in Your Career:
May you be an ambitious person, walking steadily on every step. May you get what you want and let go of what you can’t get.
In this world, hard work is the king, because society never disappoints those who work hard.
Maybe some people will say, “He was born with a silver spoon. We can’t compare to him.” But in reality, people’s birth is just the starting point.
Where you end up depends on your own efforts. You can surpass others along the way, and you’ll receive better rewards.
In this world, most people’s good lives are achieved through their own hard work.
Hard Work Is the King in Your Career:
Those born with a silver spoon are a minority. So, society is actually fair because everyone can get the life they want through their own efforts. They can even change their future.
Don’t complain, because life won’t give you time to hesitate. Only by moving forward and going all the way can you find your own light.
In this world, we are all solo travelers. Live your life in your own way. Be simple, be a little confused, and you’ll be happier.
Hard Work Is the King in Your Career:
Busy and going to bed early are the best ways to heal your heart. In today’s society, only by working hard can you meet better people. You may encounter all kinds of hardships in real life, but you should be grateful for the experience and learn to be content.
Life is your own. Only by working hard can you gain forever. After experiencing some things, you’ll mature. Do what you want to do and choose the person you love.
This kind of life is meaningful for you. Everyone in this world is struggling. So, when you learn to love yourself well, you’ll gain more.
Don’t care too much. Whether it’s about feelings or life, the cleaner your heart, the happier you’ll be.