Relationships between men and women are originally delicate, and if you don’t know how to maintain a distance, it’s easy to get into trouble. After getting involved, the best way to handle relationships is as follows.
Samantha had been dating her boyfriend for three years, but in her eyes, he was just an unromantic straight man. They had been together for so long, but he had never even given her a bouquet of flowers. Samantha was very dissatisfied with him.
Later, at work, Samantha met Yang Hao, who was three years older than her. They were colleagues, and Yang Hao was very considerate of Samantha.
As a result, their relationship developed rapidly, and Samantha fell for this man. Later, he even took the initiative to confess his feelings, without caring that Samantha already had a boyfriend.
Ultimately, Samantha secretly met with this man behind her boyfriend’s back, and their relationship crossed the line of what was acceptable for adults. However, their relationship didn’t last a month, and the man’s attitude towards Samantha became hot and cold, causing conflicts between them. On the one hand, Samantha felt guilty towards her boyfriend. On the other hand, she felt that her emotions had been deceived.
In reality, many girls who have made mistakes in love are not uncommon.
But what I want to say is that adults should know when to let go. When a relationship has no meaning for you, breaking up is the best choice.
Cut Your Losses
The deeper you love, the more painful it gets.
There’s a law in love: the more you love someone, the easier it is for them to leave you.
Love is not about begging; when you love someone, you also hope to receive their love.
Some people lose their rationality in love and are willing to hurt themselves for the other person, but they don’t realize that this is the most foolish approach.
Because the deeper you love, the more painful it gets, this sentence also tells us that we need to be rational in love.
This world can keep spinning without anyone, and when you can’t let go of someone, everything about you will be controlled by that person, leading to the direct consequence of losing yourself.
Love is a beautiful existence for each of us, but when we face love, we also need to learn to grasp the measure, because loving someone too much and losing yourself is the most irrational behavior, and nobody will pay the price for you; in the end, you’ll be the one getting hurt.
Letting Go Is Also a Form of Love
Do you have someone in your heart who you love but can’t be with? I think everyone will have different answers to this question, but what I want to say is that loving someone but not being able to be with them is not a bad thing, because for some people, letting go is also a form of love.
Time may not be able to make you forget someone, but time can make you get used to not having them.
You may still have feelings for someone, but for us, some people are ultimately unattainable.
Letting go is also a form of love, and not every encounter will have a result. If you two are not particularly compatible, then learning to let go is the best way to release each other.
Emotions are not comfortable; from a certain perspective, emotions are a form of letting go. Understanding letting go is also a form of love.
Loving someone truly means hoping they can be happy, so as long as they’re happy, that’s the greatest comfort for us.
Don’t Make Things Difficult for Yourself
Many times, we struggle in love because we make things difficult for ourselves.
We’re afraid of loving too much, and we’re also afraid of not loving enough. This is the difficult choice we face in love.
Some people love cautiously, but they still end up getting hurt. This kind of love is not worth loving.
Love is a two-way street; loving too much will only make the emotions between you and the other person more oppressive. Loving too little will make the emotions between you and the other person gradually fade away, so when it comes to emotions, just follow the natural course.
What you can’t let go of is just a habit; those who can leave are just passersby. Love is just an accessory to our lives. If you think love is too important, you’ll eventually lose yourself. Making things difficult for yourself will only make you fall into the whirlpool of emotions. Learning to let go is also a form of respect and understanding for yourself.
Dong Qing once said, “Everything is fate, and not a single thing is up to us.”
Although we can’t decide who we’ll meet, we can decide who we’ll be with. Meeting someone is a kind of fate, but parting ways is also predetermined.
The fate between men and women is originally delicate, and if you don’t know how to maintain a distance, it’s easy to get into trouble. Sometimes, not every relationship will have a result.
Since you have a family, don’t go around flirting with others. If you have intimate contact with someone, learn to let go, which is also a form of respect for yourself.